Are you confident?
 

I think I am confident in my looks and how people view me but I do worry that people judge me intellectually and that sometimes comes across I think because if somebody calls me stupid even as a joke I tend to react really defensivly to it.

i will let the fact i spend most of my time on here answer this question for me

no lolol.

no heh

Why guys?

You're all good looking and have great personalities.

Depends how drunk I am

..I'm confident at work but not socially...I'm not really good at small talk...

people tell me im very confident thats shocking to me lol i must be the best actor alive lol

in some situations i can be confident.. if iv got some adrenaline running through me etc but besides that not really..

With friends yes, with new people not really

Oh yeah this mainly. I'm a loud twat when I'm with friends.

I am in social situations, I'm a good mixer and get on well with all types of people. But personally my self confidence is low and how I look has a big part to play in that...I hate to say that as it sounds a bit shallow.

I'm not sure, sometimes I'm really confident sometimes I'm not.

I think I'm fairly good looking - but that can often change daily. I know I'm clever though, so I'm not insecure about that. I know I'm crap at sports and everyone else knows it too so idgaf about that.

Looks wise, not really. I can speak to new people, but not in the same way as people I know

Hell no! i absolutely hate my looks, i think i look rank tbh. I over analyse every single part of my appearance, until i just get to the point of hating everything about myself tbh! i get so jealous of other people aswell, which is so stupid, as jealousy is pointless :/ but i cant help it. I hardly go out with my friends, and always reject their invites, as i get so insecure, seeing everyone else at parties and stuff, and get really anxious of them judging my appearance, or just me in general so i just avoid it..
But yeah i really want plastic surgery when i get older tbh, i wish i wasn't so insecure, but oh well

Nar, but I put on the greatest front possible to the extent people actually think I am over confident.

I was. But then some stuff happened.

Sometimes, it depends.

I was never really socially but I got over that by avoiding everything social.

I have absolutely no confidence in pretty much everything.

im pretty confident in my looks but socially I dunno. Im getting pretty good I think.

Yeah i'm not bad when it comes to socialising i suppose, i've met up with a few people online just to play Tennis and it's much easier when you talk about something you can both relate to, everything just comes together then and you don't need to make much effort to keep the conversation going same when your playing football as well or watching a film.. think it all depends on what kind of situation people are in.. can't stand it when someone you know stops you in town to talk and they just go on and on about different things, my secret weapon is usually one word answers but if it's one of my Mum's friends that doesn't seem to work at all

People don't realise i'm so insecure though tbh, since if you talk about it to anyone, its classed as attention seeking :/ and fishing for compliments

Well it doesn't really help when you say the same thing in every thread :pipe:

More than I used to be for sure, there's still room for improvement but I'm getting there.

It's weird, I went from having average confidence as a kid to having pretty high confidence around 13/14, and then it kinda went downhill for seemingly no reason (well, I stopped socialising mainly, so it was self induced but not for any particular reason...think I just became lazy) and now it's probably average again. It's kinda self-inflicted with me which is annoying because it just turns into a vicious circle. Socialise less, lose confidence, struggle to socialise...annoying really. But like I said it's better now.

It's a forum, i really couldn't care less what people think of me :pipe: i enjoy playing up to this self obsessed image people think i have LOL it's different in real life, you can act how you want on here. At the end of the day i can just log out of this forum and not come back, whilst you cant do that in real life.