I understand why Alec is mad at Tom for showergate but why cry? The man is a wuss
 

Topaz showed stronger character in the incident.

He wants to be a teacher. Students will know he was previously on Big Brother. Penis photo surfaces and gets spread around school. He gets fired and his career is screwed.

Plus, Topaz didn't have her vagina shown to the public. Of course she'd be able to have more character about it.

What's so wrong about a guy not wanting his dick all over the internet? I'd probably be a little upset too. Considering he's hated Tom the whole time he'd been in there. Having someone do that and having to struggle it off like it's cool would suck.

I felt sorry for him

You don't go on a show like Big Brother which is streamed live 24/7 then (or in reality, about 3/6 atthe moment).