Is this a one sided game.
 

For weeks now Dexter, Gina and now Charlie have been mugging the other HM,s with extremely well thought out and well executed plans and they are revered for it. Some of their tactics have been at best questionable but they have a loyal fan base for it.

Now Sam has decided to waken up and have a go himself and all we are hearing is that he is a yob, slob and lowlife. I was under the illusion this was a game and any method of expediting a game plan is acceptable so why is this not the same for Sam.

The reports and posts we have been reading and making about Dexter for weeks now have been what they were, but now the same type of posts are materialising about Sam and its all wrong. I guess we all are guilty of being fans and look at certain things a little different depending on our allegiances.

Nobody plays the game the same way, so lets see who will win then we can all switch off and forget about BB till next Thursday when it all starts up again and me and chuff pick our winners which will never be the choice of other members, that's what makes this forum interesting. If it was kiss ass it would be boring.

I wouldn't worry about it, the vast majority of people who watch big brother won't read these forums, a few angry Dexter fans chucking out derogatory terms ain't gonna make a whole lot of difference.

Seems to me that if one man can fight unfair, then the same must be allowed of the other, or am I wrong.

Not on here mate Dexter bias runs rife through this forum, most of the banned members are Sam fans.

Oh seriously give it a rest, the people that are banned ended up in that position for breaking the forum rules, it doesn't matter who they support in BB, so stop with these pathetic claims of bias when you have no idea what you are talking about.

Using emotional blackmail about disabled children in order to gain votes so that he can profit to the tune of £100.000 is far worse than anything the others might be doing.

BTW, on opening night in before entering the house Sam told Emma Willis that "he wants to be a role model for deaf children" so he was playing the game even before he stepped foot in the house, he's not just suddenly playing the game he's been doing it throughout.

If people used those terms against Sam then maybe they shouldn't be so nasty.
But equally there's nothing wrong with questioning people's behaviour especially if they make the claim they're just being themselves.

Same goes for Dexter, I'm not biased.

It is !
But you have to look past the "gameplaying" and look to their true character and positive traits when they're in there just being themselves too.
No-one is gameplaying ALL the time.

But equally if they ARE, their true character sometimes comes out.

We'll never know but that's how many saw Dex with the twist.
I take a slightly different view about the whole event now though.

Good points.
I like to think I try to be impartial but like everyone I'm sure I'm not perfect.

I actually think Sam coming 3rd(at least) in the vote is one of the best things that could have happened to the show.

May the best HM win.

Well said. Sam is stooping very low.

He is desperate to win the prize for himself. Nothing wrong with that per se, but to try and emotionally blackmail everyone into giving him the money is the behaviour of scum.

Don't let the Llanelli Lager Lout get away with this.

In what way is Sam emotionally blackmailing people? genuinely curious?

I posted the reasons why...tugging on peoples heart strings by constantly mentioning deaf children is clearly using emotional blackmail and has nothing to do with why he's in that house...like everyone else he wants the prize money.

Agreed...and the bottom line is (which is more important than anything else) Sam is boring, he cant even tell a joke properly...everything about him is sub standard as a HM worthy of winning a life changing amount of money.

When you speak about Dexter you explain yourself as if it is factual. But then talking about Sam you say it is all wrong like Sam himself is being wronged by Dexter and his fans. That is biased in my book but to be fair you are entitled to your opinion as am i. But i do see that as a biased opinion reading it here. my choice to think that and thats all it is.

If you look on my profile it's clearly shows i'm a Gina fan. I also like a few of the housemates this year but still have Gina on my profile as my choice. So my opinions on Sam have nothing to do with Dexter. My opinions on Sam are simply that i am watching him single out a housemate over and over telling anyone who will listen what a bad person they are who does not deserve to be in the final. I don't like seeing that and i have also seen the many sexist remarks from Sam which again i do not like, women should not be spoken to or about in that way at all. And neither should he badger a housemate a day before the finals about the merits of him being there when that housemate has survived 9 evictions.He can't even say well done to him that's how bitter he is.But again that is just my opinion on what i see on the tv and the live feed.

He doesn't constantly mention deaf children though, don't you think that's an exaggeration?

He says he wants to change his career and work with deaf children, set an example to show them they can still do the things they want etc.

He has never said he would give the prize fund to charity and I would certainly expect him to keep dropping lines like that if he was going for a sympathy vote.

To be honest, I think it's just whether you feel he's genuine enough about it.

I won't hold him being a lager lout (if true) against him in there.
But equally I'll look to see how hard he's trying to promote these deafness issues inside the house.

In a way he can't win if he constantly bangs on about.
But I've yet to learn anything about deafness issues even if he's raised awareness by being there.

I know it's not easy for him but I do honestly think there's some truth in the sympathy card as was seen in the twist task where he dithered about trying to act the good guy.

Not saying he's a bad person but being deaf doesn't automatically mean he must be good either.

He has repeatedly mentioned he is in BB as a role model for deaf and disabled kids. He is trying to tug our heartstrings.

We know a little bit about what the REAL Sam is like now. An anti-social nuisance in his community. Some role model! :rolleyes:

He is an aggressive loutish character but has kept that under wraps by sleeping his way through 90% of the series. Now when we are coming to the end and he's fearful of not getting what he sees is rightfully his, he's turning aggressively on the person who he feels may get the cash he thinks has been earmarked for him from Day 1.

A game and a game plan differs depending on your morality scale and I am still believing that sams game plan is far less evil than some of the others. His GP is direct and very easy to see. Dexters and indeed Gina and Charlies depends on stealth, deception and lies. Its up to you to decide who is the winner in the GP stakes.

Actually Sam recently said on one VT that he will give 25% of it to charity. He didn't say which one but he did say that much.

So by that definition you think that what Gina did and said to Hazel was ok then, I am confused.

I'm not even going to debate a story that came from a ****ty newspaper..

Ok so lets swing this emotional blackmail stuff around then...

Dexter has said if he wins he would give most of the money to charity, Gina has said she will give it all to charity, are they emotionally blackmailing viewers too then?

Also Dexter is always dropping words and phrases he knows the public will pick up on like personal journey, his experience, changing for the better because of BB and then getting all emotional, is this also a sign of emotional blackmail?

What has Gina got to do with my post about Sam's poor behavior towards a housemate?
I'm confused too.

Hazel left and is no longer in the running.

Fair enough, I haven't seen that vt though or I don't recall it.

But the discussion I was having with the other 2 members was about what they say/do in the house that could be seen as emotional blackmail....

Your post infers that women should not be spoken to or abused like that. So are you saying that another woman saying these horrible things is ok as long as its to another woman.

It was a recent one where they all gave a speech to win the show i think.
He also said he'd give his mom 25% and keep the rest for himself.

:worship:

Thank goodness I am not the only be that sees it this way.

Why didn't Sam moralise at Hazel and Daley re the GF? That would have been very interesting LOL This really is scraping the barrel and I used to support him. Schoolyard behaviour from the humourless, integrity lacking dross. Gina a friend to Dexter NOT ! The dross are all terrified Dexter is getting more airtime, they said as much. Has anyone else ever behaved in such an appalling manner in the final few days? It's now bullying IMO. I now consider Sam to be a moronic, cowardly yob and am so disappointed.