Affair dilemma
 

Well since we're all doing it :pipe:

Joshua has been having an affair with Amy, who has been going out with Michael for about 8 months now. Eventually Amy acknowledges that what she is doing is wrong so she breaks up with Michael but also breaks up with Joshua. She then starts going out with Joshua's flat mate and best friend, Tom, who has absolutely no idea that Joshua and Amy were ever sleeping together. She is doing this specifically to hurt Joshua's feelings. Joshua is deeply hurt by this. What should Joshua do? Should he tell Tom what happened between him and Amy, risking his friendship with Tom with wider ramifications including Michael finding out; also potentially ruining Tom and Amy's relationship and potentially causing a lot of upset and nobody believing him; or should Joshua keep quiet and accept Amy hurting him in order to appear to be happy for Tom even though he knows Amy isn't being genuine?

hhmmmm I would tell Tom if I were Joshua

I'd tell him. It would be too much of a strain not to.

I'd tell him I have had far too many dilemmas to work through this week and this is going to have to wait.

I would tell him tha she is just a good time girl, enjoy the sex and not get emotionally involved.

I'd let them all get on with it... none of the people in any of these dilemmas are very good friends, so I say, phuq 'em.

So who is banging the Sugarbabes then?

Oh I think most people at one time or another.