For those who don't think Jale is being bullied:
 

1: How would you feel in her position?
2: How would you class what is happening to you?
2: What would you do in her position?

Excellent question

One that no - one wants to answer Chuff, as when I posted it in the other thread the silence was deafening.
Very telling, eh?

Of course they wont get answered !!:joker: silly you for expecting them to be :joker:

bullied
bullying
rise above it and await the evictions


she is playing a blinder

:thumbs:

1. Alone, like I can't even walk into a room without being glared or shouted at.

2. Being left out of the group, cornered off and bullied.

3. Wait until Friday. Then kill someone, firstly Pauline with two plates, then stab Helen. Everyone else will run and I will be the victorious Jale.

Spot on!
Now what about someone who thinks she isn't being bullied giving their side?

She's not being bullied by everyone, just Helen. The rest just simply don't want anything to do with her in case she plays the victim, simple.

1. Picked on by mainly one other housemate ( but NOT bullied in the conventional sense of the word)
2. Agressiveness and perhaps jealousy
3 Try to form proper bonds with other housemates and have a little chat with Big Brother if she feels depressed

I know these aren't the answers you may have been looking for but these are my feelings on the whole issue

Jale is so being bullied it sickens me

Get P Out

Thanks for answering. :thumbs:

I've seen a lot of these Bullying threads and I agree Jale is being bullied but only because she's finding hard to stick up for herself bless her. She's playing the victim not because she wants to but because she doesn't have the confidence to confront Helen even though I wish she did. Anyway that's why maybe there's such a grey area behind this bullying. In conclusion, someone needs to stick up for her and I mean really confront Helen.

jale will let fly eventually..theres only so much a person can take...hopefully helen and pauline will be at the receiving end of it! i wish pauline was given the task of staying silent for a day or two because she really does talk sh*** at times...i know people dont like the bully word but having watched helen since first night i would definite use the word with her...her bahaviour towards danielle was dreadful (not a big danielle fan)..then matthew and now jale...helen and pauline are really turning me off watching this programme and if im honest so is toya!

You posted this in another thread :bored: @ OP

And I've answered it for them.

1: How would you feel in her position?

would be sad if everyone didn't like me but it comes with being better than everyone and I would know that I'm getting lots of air time and a underdog edit and the public probably loves me x

2: How would you class what is happening to you?

haters hating on me because I'm better than them.

2: What would you do in her position?

continue to be better than everyone and clock any bitch that tries me.

the word bully is thrown around to much to be quite honest

1. No that happy, I don't believe I would be enjoying being in the house.

2. I'd say I was being picked on.

3. Winning money doesn't interest me, and fame even moreso doesn't. So my motivation for being in there would be only for the experience. And since I wasn't enjoying myself, I'd walk out.



People are being mean in there to Jale, but I don't see it as bullying. From my experience bullying is worse.

It very much is bullying in a way where they turn whoever else against her and then highlight her in a way where she is embarrased like taking 2 much food i mean if that had have been helen pauline wouldnt have said jack to her and if that was kymberly who use her lip gloss nothing would have been said its bullying alright jale to win shes better than any homewrecker helen or wannabe rapper pauline !

And add Jet,how would they feel if it was a member of their family?

We are talking about in real life not made up internet persona and bravado.
You seem very insecure to feel the need to keep up the act when presented with a question about how YOU would feel. :shrug:
You will grow out of it dont worry about it.

Apart from the second, this. I wouldn't feel bullied though, because for me there would have to be way more actual abuse for me to feel like I was being "bullied".

Also I wouldn't kill Pauline first, I would kill the house dog Helen and then Toya and Pauline simultaneously... and then the rest of them why not, basically won then ;) :laugh:

tru

1) Helen's a terrifying bitch so like crap. Also quite confused as to why I was being treated like that unnecessarily, so long as I had others to talk to (which Jale does) I think I could manage though
2) Being unnecessarily picked on and targeted
3) Asked for people that liked me for advice/ask the people what their problem was/mention it to Big Brother

Bullying is completely relative and subjective to individual people in unique situations. It is only bullying when the person themselves feel like they're being bullied, if they can withstand it, deal with it or not even care then it's just nastiness. It's only when that person is affected emotionally or physically by it and they determine themselves that it's bullying then that's what it becomes

And so far I see little evidence she's not able to cope with it. She seems a pretty strong person to me