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lewis111 21-09-2015 08:50 PM

Austin making it personal
 
Can anyone possibly defend his behaviour and language tonight after brining in Janice being a mother. She dislikes him, so that makes her a bad mother

Csk-83 21-09-2015 10:11 PM

I think everything Austin said tonight is a reflection of how he is feeling inside. It's really sad to watch someone completely crumble like that and I hope he can move on with his life when he's evicted tomorrow and focus on the things that make him happy.
I think he feels that people are against him and that just reinforces what he thinks of himself - that he is worthless. Austin is someone who is plagued with insecurities that manifest into poisonous attacks against others.
The things he said to Janice tonight were appalling but I hope his friends in the house can see that it's actually aimed towards himself but he can't find a better coping strategy to handle it.
In no way shape or form is this post a defence of Austin's behaviour, he will be evicted tomorrow and rightly so, but I don't think he's the type of guy who would ever want to intentionally hurt anyone.
We live and learn, we all have flaws and things about us as people that need to improve. I'm sure he's got some good people in his life on the outside, I just hope he hangs on to them, confronts his demons and becomes a better person for it.
I dunno, maybe I'm a soft touch!

BigBrotherfan4ever 22-09-2015 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by lewis111 (Post 8164864)
Can anyone possibly defend his behaviour and language tonight after brining in Janice being a mother. She dislikes him, so that makes her a bad mother

He was absolutely vile to Janice in what he said, I so hope he's evicted tonight.

Vanessa 22-09-2015 07:17 AM

I think he has gone too far. I'd be surprised if he stays and he will get booed.

rubymoo 22-09-2015 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Csk-83 (Post 8165390)
I think everything Austin said tonight is a reflection of how he is feeling inside. It's really sad to watch someone completely crumble like that and I hope he can move on with his life when he's evicted tomorrow and focus on the things that make him happy.
I think he feels that people are against him and that just reinforces what he thinks of himself - that he is worthless. Austin is someone who is plagued with insecurities that manifest into poisonous attacks against others.
The things he said to Janice tonight were appalling but I hope his friends in the house can see that it's actually aimed towards himself but he can't find a better coping strategy to handle it.
In no way shape or form is this post a defence of Austin's behaviour, he will be evicted tomorrow and rightly so, but I don't think he's the type of guy who would ever want to intentionally hurt anyone.
We live and learn, we all have flaws and things about us as people that need to improve. I'm sure he's got some good people in his life on the outside, I just hope he hangs on to them, confronts his demons and becomes a better person for it.
I dunno, maybe I'm a soft touch!

This is a great post, and i agree with most of it, i don't think he'll be out tonight (here's hoping:fc:)

I did actually feel sorry for him, and was left wondering if Janice reminded him of somebody that he knew, and that was the reason for his venomous attack on her, he said that his family had crumbled and his partner had a great family, so again he's angry and conflicted, he also said about Natasha being a mother after she swore at him, i think he has 'mum' issues.

I think he's the most real person in the house, we all have our bad moments, and say things we regret, i'm actually hoping he stays to the end.

Vanessa 22-09-2015 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165941)
This is a great post, and i agree with most of it, i don't think he'll be out tonight (here's hoping:fc:)

I did actually feel sorry for him, and was left wondering if Janice reminded him of somebody that he knew, and that was the reason for his venomous attack on her, he said that his family had crumbled and his partner had a great family, so again he's angry and conflicted, he also said about Natasha being a mother after she swore at him, i think he has 'mum' issues.

I think he's the most real person in the house, we all have our bad moments, and say things we regret, i'm actually hoping he stays to the end.

Didn't he say that his mum was in prison? I do think his personal problems are affecting his behaviour in the House.

rubymoo 22-09-2015 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 8165942)
Didn't he say that his mum was in prison? I do think his personal problems are affecting his behaviour in the House.

I don't know about his mum, but if she is in prison then that would explain his anger towards women, this doesn't mean his behaviour was ok or acceptable because his behaviour was disgusting, yet there's a bigger part of me that feels sorry for him, because he genuinely seemed to have a lot of emotional pain. I think Janice reminds him of his mum and that's why he's been so horrid to her, and on top of that i feel he invested all of himself into a friendship with James, whereas in my opinion James has used him, James sees this as a game and has played it as a game, and Austin has fallen head first into an unrequited relationship and has not played the game at all, what i like about Austin is that what you see is what you get, he's a simple type of person who doesn't appear to have an agenda, on the other hand James has an agenda and he's always thinking, and watching and composing himself with the moral high ground, James is a sneak and not a person to trust.

Vanessa 22-09-2015 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165954)
I don't know about his mum, but if she is in prison then that would explain his anger towards women, this doesn't mean his behaviour was ok or acceptable because his behaviour was disgusting, yet there's a bigger part of me that feels sorry for him, because he genuinely seemed to have a lot of emotional pain. I think Janice reminds him of his mum and that's why he's been so horrid to her, and on top of that i feel he invested all of himself into a friendship with James, whereas in my opinion James has used him, James sees this as a game and has played it as a game, and Austin has fallen head first into an unrequited relationship and has not played the game at all, what i like about Austin is that what you see is what you get, he's a simple type of person who doesn't appear to have an agenda, on the other hand James has an agenda and he's always thinking, and watching and composing himself with the moral high ground, James is a sneak and not a person to trust.

No, i think their friendship is genuine. But Austin expects James to agree with everything he says and does. James is his own person and has his own mind. I find Austin very controlling. He's obsessed with James, so now he's making him feel guilty to get him back onside.

rubymoo 22-09-2015 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 8165956)
No, i think their friendship is genuine. But Austin expects James to agree with everything he says and does. James is his own person and has his own mind. I find Austin very controlling. He's obsessed with James, so now he's making him feel guilty to get him back onside.

I agree, i think there is a friendship there, and i think his mum issues came into play when James saved Janice, it was like James saving his (austins) mum, and that's where his hurt comes from, it's like James has sided with his mum (austins mum), this is of course just my opinion, i may be over thinking it, Austin of course may not even know where this hatred or hurt is coming from, James should have picked Bobby that day instead of a bull**** reason for picking Janice, James is a player and Austin got played, but i think they'll be BFF's on the outside:hee:

A lot of people want to control if they have been hurt, by being controlling you think you're going to minimize pain when in reality it's going to make it worse, hopefully Austin will watch this back and get the therapy he needs.

Beso 22-09-2015 08:03 AM

his mums a thief, that's obviously where he gets his lack of respect for others from!

rubymoo 22-09-2015 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 8165967)
his mums a thief, that's obviously where he gets his lack of respect for others from!

:nono:

Don't blame a child for his parents sins.

waterhog 22-09-2015 08:09 AM

if Austin is saying things that you dislike - his objective is working - game on.

Beso 22-09-2015 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165971)
:nono:

Don't blame a child for his parents sins.

good job i didn't then.:spin:

rubymoo 22-09-2015 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 8165977)
good job i didn't then.:spin:

:laugh:but you sort of did, blaming his lack of respect of others on his mum's crime.

just thinkin 22-09-2015 08:16 AM

he should have been ejected - or better still he should never have been put into the house. Don't they have to do a mental test on people before they go on - he was obviously having a day off that day. There is NO EXCUSE for treating people the way he did last night. Vile human being. He needs to get himself sorted.

Vanessa 22-09-2015 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165964)
I agree, i think there is a friendship there, and i think his mum issues came into play when James saved Janice, it was like James saving his (austins) mum, and that's where his hurt comes from, it's like James has sided with his mum (austins mum), this is of course just my opinion, i may be over thinking it, Austin of course may not even know where this hatred or hurt is coming from, James should have picked Bobby that day instead of a bull**** reason for picking Janice, James is a player and Austin got played, but i think they'll be BFF's on the outside:hee:

A lot of people want to control if they have been hurt, by being controlling you think you're going to minimize pain when in reality it's going to make it worse, hopefully Austin will watch this back and get the therapy he needs.

He fancies James and treats him like he belongs to him. He's always trying to control him. Even James can see this and he doesn't like it.

Kizzy 22-09-2015 08:19 AM

He threw a fit and then cried to get out of trouble... like a 2yr old, which is what he sounds like 99% of the time.

rubymoo 22-09-2015 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 8165981)
He fancies James and treats him like he belongs to him. He's always trying to control him. Even James can see this and he doesn't like it.

Then James shouldn't cuddle up with him/share a bed with him, and i think James would always be the alpha in any relationship, Austin comes across as a child trying to get what he wants, and James comes across as a parent figure, which is always going to be weird as they're the same age, James knows what he's doing and he's played his game well.:smug:

Vanessa 22-09-2015 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165990)
Then James shouldn't cuddle up with him/share a bed with him, and i think James would always be the alpha in any relationship, Austin comes across as a child trying to get what he wants, and James comes across as a parent figure, which is always going to be weird as they're the same age, James knows what he's doing and he's played his game well.:smug:

Yes, but in bed we all know who would be in control :hehe:

rubymoo 22-09-2015 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 8165992)
Yes, but in bed we all know who would be in control :hehe:

Absolutely:laugh:

Beso 22-09-2015 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8165979)
:laugh:but you sort of did, blaming his lack of respect of others on his mum's crime.

the crime is proof of her lack of respect, kids learn from parents.

OZBB 22-09-2015 08:42 AM

And ironically, apparently part of the money from her crime went towards paying off Austin's credit card debt.

SO her crime went towards assisting her son with his bad judgement.


Jesus - white trash!!!!!!

chuff me dizzy 22-09-2015 08:43 AM

Vile, utterly vile


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