Are you a judgemental person quiz?
 

https://www.psychologies.co.uk/tests...dgemental.html

You feel the need to assert yourself

You are always quick to criticise. Your unsupressable need to dish out advice to others on how they should behave even seems to dictate the way you operate in relationships. You like to think that your purpose in life is to point out other people’s faults. What's more, you’re very good at it; you've got an enviable way of telling people home truths. However, the risk is that your frankness won't be appreciated, and that you'll end up hurting people. It might be interesting to use your flair for analysis to look in to the reasons for your behaviour and to find a way to tone it down. Maybe you need recognition from the people around you, in which case your habit of pointing out people's weaknesses strengthens your own sense of identity. Children do this, too, at the age when they are realising that they are different individuals from their parents, but carrying on into adulthood indicates a lack of self-confidence and a deep need to be loved. Working on your self-esteem would help. Those close to you would discover and learn to appreciate your depth and sensitivity, both of which are sides to your personality that normally stay hidden.

You have an irrational fear of criticism

It seems that you aren't comfortable at all with passing judgement on others. Quite the opposite: you avoid criticising at all costs because when you yourself are reprimanded over something, you feel it as deeply as if it were an assault on your psyche. Even when you're not the one on the receiving end of the rebuke, it makes you feel uneasy. Your emotional sensitivity means that you are very compassionate but it can also mean that you hold back from expressing yourself fully. You sometimes get so emotional that you hardly dare expose how you feel by putting it into words. If these things apply to you, it would be useful to find out where the problems come from. Perhaps the answer lies in your past. If you felt you were cruelly blamed for things as a child it could be that you have developed a fear of being punished as an adult, too. If anyone ever tries to criticise you for something the feelings you had as a child are awakened and you relive the same pain. You need to console your inner child and try to separate yourself from it. The peace you find as a result will allow you to remain calm if someone chooses to make an attack on you verbally. What's more, in embracing adulthood, you'll give yourself licence to express your opinions freely.

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I can't help but feel like this is a criticism :fist:

You feel the need to assert yourself
You are always quick to criticise. Your unsupressable need to dish out advice to others on how they should behave even seems to dictate the way you operate in relationships. You like to think that your purpose in life is to point out other people’s faults. What's more, you’re very good at it; you've got an enviable way of telling people home truths. However, the risk is that your frankness won't be appreciated, and that you'll end up hurting people. It might be interesting to use your flair for analysis to look in to the reasons for your behaviour and to find a way to tone it down. Maybe you need recognition from the people around you, in which case your habit of pointing out people's weaknesses strengthens your own sense of identity. Children do this, too, at the age when they are realising that they are different individuals from their parents, but carrying on into adulthood indicates a lack of self-confidence and a deep need to be loved. Working on your self-esteem would help. Those close to you would discover and learn to appreciate your depth and sensitivity, both of which are sides to your personality that normally stay hidden.

Welp :worry:

Constructive criticism
You are capable of analysing the particular idiosyncrasies of the people in your circle. You also know how to be magnanimous and accept others despite their failings. If you do need to criticise, you weigh up the consequences before speaking to the person concerned because you know that criticism needs to be constructive, and you'd rather not criticise otherwise. You have understood that people who are a poor judge of others are a poor judge of themselves. This is why your friends often turn to you for advice. But you always tread carefully when asked your opinion. Such wisdom demonstrates that you have spent time examining your own way of working. Painful attacks on your character in the past may have led you to adopt this respectful stance, or perhaps you realised over time that stereotyping people just leads to systematic, mediocre judgements. Either way, the result has been beneficial because you have discovered the true nature of your own personality and identified your most pertinent weaknesses. Keep hold of that subtle control over your opinions. The creativity it requires will enable you to observe human behaviour even more closely.


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Constructive criticism

You are capable of analysing the particular idiosyncrasies of the people in your circle. You also know how to be magnanimous and accept others despite their failings. If you do need to criticise, you weigh up the consequences before speaking to the person concerned because you know that criticism needs to be constructive, and you'd rather not criticise otherwise. You have understood that people who are a poor judge of others are a poor judge of themselves. This is why your friends often turn to you for advice. But you always tread carefully when asked your opinion. Such wisdom demonstrates that you have spent time examining your own way of working. Painful attacks on your character in the past may have led you to adopt this respectful stance, or perhaps you realised over time that stereotyping people just leads to systematic, mediocre judgements. Either way, the result has been beneficial because you have discovered the true nature of your own personality and identified your most pertinent weaknesses. Keep hold of that subtle control over your opinions. The creativity it requires will enable you to observe human behaviour even more closely.

You have an irrational fear of criticism

It seems that you aren't comfortable at all with passing judgement on others. Quite the opposite: you avoid criticising at all costs because when you yourself are reprimanded over something, you feel it as deeply as if it were an assault on your psyche. Even when you're not the one on the receiving end of the rebuke, it makes you feel uneasy. Your emotional sensitivity means that you are very compassionate but it can also mean that you hold back from expressing yourself fully. You sometimes get so emotional that you hardly dare expose how you feel by putting it into words. If these things apply to you, it would be useful to find out where the problems come from. Perhaps the answer lies in your past. If you felt you were cruelly blamed for things as a child it could be that you have developed a fear of being punished as an adult, too. If anyone ever tries to criticise you for something the feelings you had as a child are awakened and you relive the same pain. You need to console your inner child and try to separate yourself from it. The peace you find as a result will allow you to remain calm if someone chooses to make an attack on you verbally. What's more, in embracing adulthood, you'll give yourself licence to express your opinions freely.

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Constructive criticism
You are capable of analysing the particular idiosyncrasies of the people in your circle. You also know how to be magnanimous and accept others despite their failings. If you do need to criticise, you weigh up the consequences before speaking to the person concerned because you know that criticism needs to be constructive, and you'd rather not criticise otherwise. You have understood that people who are a poor judge of others are a poor judge of themselves. This is why your friends often turn to you for advice. But you always tread carefully when asked your opinion. Such wisdom demonstrates that you have spent time examining your own way of working. Painful attacks on your character in the past may have led you to adopt this respectful stance, or perhaps you realised over time that stereotyping people just leads to systematic, mediocre judgements. Either way, the result has been beneficial because you have discovered the true nature of your own personality and identified your most pertinent weaknesses. Keep hold of that subtle control over your opinions. The creativity it requires will enable you to observe human behaviour even more closely.

You feel the need to assert yourself

You are always quick to criticise. Your unsupressable need to dish out advice to others on how they should behave even seems to dictate the way you operate in relationships. You like to think that your purpose in life is to point out other people’s faults. What's more, you’re very good at it; you've got an enviable way of telling people home truths. However, the risk is that your frankness won't be appreciated, and that you'll end up hurting people. It might be interesting to use your flair for analysis to look in to the reasons for your behaviour and to find a way to tone it down. Maybe you need recognition from the people around you, in which case your habit of pointing out people's weaknesses strengthens your own sense of identity. Children do this, too, at the age when they are realising that they are different individuals from their parents, but carrying on into adulthood indicates a lack of self-confidence and a deep need to be loved. Working on your self-esteem would help. Those close to you would discover and learn to appreciate your depth and sensitivity, both of which are sides to your personality that normally stay hidden.

You have an irrational fear of criticism
It seems that you aren't comfortable at all with passing judgement on others. Quite the opposite: you avoid criticising at all costs because when you yourself are reprimanded over something, you feel it as deeply as if it were an assault on your psyche. Even when you're not the one on the receiving end of the rebuke, it makes you feel uneasy. Your emotional sensitivity means that you are very compassionate but it can also mean that you hold back from expressing yourself fully. You sometimes get so emotional that you hardly dare expose how you feel by putting it into words. If these things apply to you, it would be useful to find out where the problems come from. Perhaps the answer lies in your past. If you felt you were cruelly blamed for things as a child it could be that you have developed a fear of being punished as an adult, too. If anyone ever tries to criticise you for something the feelings you had as a child are awakened and you relive the same pain. You need to console your inner child and try to separate yourself from it. The peace you find as a result will allow you to remain calm if someone chooses to make an attack on you verbally. What's more, in embracing adulthood, you'll give yourself licence to express your opinions freely.

Constructive criticism
You are capable of analysing the particular idiosyncrasies of the people in your circle. You also know how to be magnanimous and accept others despite their failings. If you do need to criticise, you weigh up the consequences before speaking to the person concerned because you know that criticism needs to be constructive, and you'd rather not criticise otherwise. You have understood that people who are a poor judge of others are a poor judge of themselves. This is why your friends often turn to you for advice. But you always tread carefully when asked your opinion. Such wisdom demonstrates that you have spent time examining your own way of working. Painful attacks on your character in the past may have led you to adopt this respectful stance, or perhaps you realised over time that stereotyping people just leads to systematic, mediocre judgements. Either way, the result has been beneficial because you have discovered the true nature of your own personality and identified your most pertinent weaknesses. Keep hold of that subtle control over your opinions. The creativity it requires will enable you to observe human behaviour even more closely.

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