Too tired!
 

Sick and tired of all these fights. I dont need to stress for me or by baby. Its the internet for god sake! Dont take it so seriously!

It seems some people cant have opinions without being called in a gang or set or a hater.....whatever

Its all got childish so let the children have their playground.

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You didn't respond to my post in the 'For Paris fans' thread though kiz - do you think I'm being unfair?

Anyway, yeah I'm sick of the fights over the same thing too. But as you say yourself, it's the Internet so there's no need to get stressed about it! If someone refers to you as being in a gang, or a hater, and you don't believe it's true - just prove them wrong.

Good luck with your pregnancy if you are taking a break, and I hope you come back for BB8. I'm expecting things to change of course when BB8 starts anyway.

Oh come on, youve just moaned that you dont like being labelled a gang, but youve just labelled us 'children in a playground' or whatever.

And last time I checked, someone going to prison was serious:puzzled:
And this thread was just ANOTHER thread going to cause a fight.

This is the one post Im going to make in it, and then Im ignoring it.

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Totally Agree Kiz :thumbs:

And Good luck With your Baby :hugesmile:

It is always hard to stop fights from occuring within a forum, especially when views are very strong about a particular Celebrity or whoever. Passions run deep and if one person says that they love their Celebrity and wish them well, then another member says horrible things, then it can get heated.:devil:

A lot of the time, it is one major disagreement starting on one thread, which carries onto another and then another and then another.

Suddenly a UTU appears from another member, which may not be nice and then it gets made public within the forum.

It is upsetting, but this is where moderation is important.

Gangs do form on a forum, as certain members get on with other certain members and make good friends. There is nothing wrong with that:thumbs: That's a posititive:thumbs2:

I don't like the comment:- "Its all got childish so let the children have their playground"

Many new members are still at school and after lessons, are sent out into the playground.

Younger members will talk about this wonderful forum TIBB, and say to their friends, "Come join the forum, it's fun!!!"

Many younger members will be childish at time, "They are children". But some who are over 16 are childish too. I can be very childish at times, and I am honest on that opinion of myself.:colour:

There is nothing wrong with feeling childish at times, it is easy to get upset and feeling provoked, makes it worse.
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I do wish you well with your baby and hope that it is a healthy one too, with no problems!:thumbs:

But that is my wish for all pregnant mother's, as I would never wish a problem to happen to an innocent child. I feel that everyone would agree with me on that comment.




nodisharmony :angel:

I can see the divide that Kiz is talking about. And I don't see it going away any time soon.

It's u2u God damnit :laugh3:.

Lmao... yes, quite. :thumbs:

I'm sorry, but you say it's just the internet, yet you have just said you're stressing, which could cause something to your baby. If it's just the internet, why are you stressing? And bringing your 'unborn baby' into this was totally irrelevant.

And yes, the U2U would be better. I've seen you tell others about that Kiz, maybe you should do the same in future.

sorry to hear about that kizzy hope you come back soon

I'm Sorry you are stressing about this, and if i have been childish i am sorry but i was just defending somewone i felt like needed to be defended.

I fully agree with Kizwiz about a gang mentality, I don't mean to bring it up again but Chrizzle used the word "waltz" in response to my post, and to me that epitomises everything that can be bad about TiBB, so many people, myself included, are so quick to judge and exclude and be mean because they can get away with it. What I mean is that by waltz, it suggests somebody is going somewhere they're not invited. Last time I checked this was a public forum, where you could post your opinion and maybe make some friends, not to be bitchy and generally condescending towards other people. Hey, I'm guilty of it too, but I'm willing to accept when I'm wrong and I'm pretty good at keeping my mouth shut, there've been plenty of arguments on TiBB recently that I could have gotten involved in but I haven't, and it's driven me away. And now whenever I make a post I get told I'm "not even a regular member" like it's against the law for me to be here. What, does somebody's ego suddenly increase in size for every time I log in so that they can make a "You're not a regular and have no friends here, ha ha I'm better than you" type comment?


Good on you Kizzy, good luck with the pregnancy and I hope all goes well :)

Thank you to all those who have responded but I would like to make a few replies....sorry but I didnt have time to respond to everybodies

Thanks Ash, sorry I didn’t respond to your post, but I don’t have the energy anymore.

I have tried to avoid posting with my friends, Red and I rarely post together anymore because we get called a set/gang so we just don’t do it. And we used to have so much fun posting together.

Its all got too much and to be fair I couldn’t give a flight stuff anymore.

And I’m not sure if I will be back for BB8……. I would just rather go I think and leave this place behind me.

This is the first and only time that I have ever called anyone childish on this site. But to be honest Chris….. that how I feel, it all got so petty and peoples opinions don’t matter anymore. I cant debate with some people because they just wont have it…..cant do it maybe.

Yes someone going to prison is serious, so is drink driving!!!!!!! I am honest when I say I don’t wish any harm to come to Paris.

But I will say something positive about you (another first :wink: Your attitude towards Paris as made me give you some respect. You have been able to see above all this and say you hope this makes her a better person and that punishment may be just the thing to do that.

So I applaud you and I really mean that


Mark…seriously…… all I wanted to say was all this petty bickering was stressing me. Some people can see that the internet is a laugh, a place to have a joke expand your mind and have a good debate. Unfortunately you also meet some tw@ts that are obsessed with non talented celebs that have no concern for the law. I believe that you are your little cluck of friends are responsible for 99% of the drama on this site recently and who the hell are you to tell me what I can and cant say in my post. If I want to say things are stressing me and my baby then I can damn well do so……Now f.u.c.k off

:hello: Good on you Kizzy!

When I said what I said, I was really angry so sorry if it sounded aggressive. But I respect you as a non- Paris fan aswell, for not being biased and taking the easy option by saying 'just lock her up end of'
And I do apologise for causing you any stress, as it cant be easy.

For once, its not you that I am annoyed with on the forum:laugh:

That's good though - if you're not affected by it anymore, you should keep posting! You're entitled to, just like anyone else. Petty arguments going away would help, but as long as people can hold onto their opinions and debate and communicate well there shouldn't be a problem.

You shouldn't leave TiBB though, you've been a member for a while, you've posted loads - plus Red is a mod here and it's where you two met! Nothing can take that away, at the end of the day.

And whilst you're saying you won't come back for BB8 now, I'm sure there will be plenty to debate and talk about in the threads then, about the series itself. So do consider it!

Are you telling me to **** off?

Yes I am you annoying little tw@t

Wooo, finally, something genuine from you.
I wouldn't resort to swearing if I was you, people like Sophie were banned for that yesterday, but we both know you wont be banned/warned for it.

I dont care if I get banned for having a go at a little twurp like you....... its worth it and you know what........... it feels good!

Good for you. :thumbs:
It's also hilarious to see a 30 year old woman arguing with a 15 year old kid. :spin2:

I'd just like to point out that Red Moon isn't actually the only Moderator on here, and ultimately that decision would lie with Kaz, James and Mark. And I think Sophie was actually banned for insulting another member?

She was banned in the past for swearing, and so was I. I think she did use swear words yesterday aswell though.

lmao Good on you Kizzy
Well Done :banana:

Ohhhh harsh blow...... and kid is right..... I thought you were 10 tho