Sucking up to India
 

Rachel is such an arse kisser :bored: , running over to India and hugging her and giving her all this sympathy like she can do no wrong . It's cringy how she keeps complimenting India's body aswell .

Yes, it was quite disappointing but for all the housemates know Indias plan is working and they are all looking horrendous and transphobic so i can kind of understand it

If only she knew that India is quite disliked :laugh:

She is a catalyst. Accelerates reactions whilst looking to remain unaffected herself. Like her all the same and find her measured and yet able to hold her own if necessary. She is “managing” India by giving “positive strokes” where others have refused to engage in her game of projective identification. Someone in any group usually takes on this role as it prevents total isolation of the dickhead which would demonise the group and award the dickhead undue pity. Well played, Rachael!

I think Rachel means well but is trying to be nice to everyone

I like Rachel. She isn't stupid. India is playing the victim card..she is deliberately segregating herself for the sympathy vote. Rachel can see exactly what she is doing and hopefully Rachel can have a discussion with her and put her straight without pandering to her too much. It's easy to just want to leave her to wallow in self pity...but doing would be playing right into her hands. Rachel's was right to do that (albeit I didn't want her to) but in hindsight she has done good...don't let her become the 'victim'...because that's just what India wants.

this could potentially be Rachel's downfall if she isn't careful :worry: