Originally Posted by saiwong (Post 10196693)

I knew beforhand that tempers are high and alot of people are angry at what Roxy did, and its totally understandable.

But from the summaries of the Roxy's appearence on Jeremy Vine that I've read, are totally different from what I saw.

When people are in a hightened and angry state, when watching the interview, their mind adjust what they see
to something that is more acceptable to them. Their mind filters out what they want and don't want to accept.
Some people never want to forgive Roxy, so their mind filters what they see occordingly. So in the
end what they experience is different from what actually occured.

Does this behaviour sound similar to what some other individual did ?

If you were to watch this interview in a months time when everyone has calmed down, you will see a totally differently interview.

I've had personal experience of someone close to me who's been through traumatic events, and the way Roxy is behaving is
very similar. People who have been through trauma can easily be 'triggered' by certain actions however passive and non-aggressive,
and consequent action can be hurtful. The hurt is real but not intentional and once the person has calmed down and see what they
have done they are apologetic.

Roxy sould listen to Amelia and get professional counseling to help manage trauma.

Originally Posted by saiwong (Post 10196693)

I knew beforhand that tempers are high and alot of people are angry at what Roxy did, and its totally understandable.

But from the summaries of the Roxy's appearence on Jeremy Vine that I've read, are totally different from what I saw.

When people are in a hightened and angry state, when watching the interview, their mind adjust what they see
to something that is more acceptable to them. Their mind filters out what they want and don't want to accept.
Some people never want to forgive Roxy, so their mind filters what they see occordingly. So in the
end what they experience is different from what actually occured.

Does this behaviour sound similar to what some other individual did ?

If you were to watch this interview in a months time when everyone has calmed down, you will see a totally differently interview.

I've had personal experience of someone close to me who's been through traumatic events, and the way Roxy is behaving is
very similar. People who have been through trauma can easily be 'triggered' by certain actions however passive and non-aggressive,
and consequent action can be hurtful. The hurt is real but not intentional and once the person has calmed down and see what they
have done they are apologetic.

Roxy sould listen to Amelia and get professional counseling to help manage trauma.

Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10196760)

She’s inflicting trauma on other people with her trauma. A line has to be drawn somewhere.

Even IF she did go through what she is attesting to, which I doubt the more and more I read up about her and listen to her but that’s not my place, it’s not an excuse. Some of the more evil criminals in the world have been through trauma probably, yet where is their sympathy facing life sentences? Why should it be any different for Roxanne? If she was raped and as a result raped people, would you be saying the same thing?

Also, let’s not forget, hundreds of people that she’s worked with, including 21 of her costars, can attest to the behaviour being displayed here. Why do you think she asked to speak to the producers? Is it not obvious she knows damn well that what happened isn’t how she is describing, which is why she can only operate in the shadows? Was Sally not 100% correct, that any person who seriously thought they were in danger would’ve left and got a lawyer?

Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10196782)

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The panel on Jeremy Vine didn't even question her casual behaviour as the incident happened, she LAUGHED when Ryan supposedly hurt her :facepalm: .

Her story never made sense , and why did she keep trying to get Ryan removed. Why did it keep taking a darker turn with her lies !!! .

Her feelings are BS, she claims only now she realised after watching back the video that he didn't hurt mean to hurt her yet she said she was in pain at the time wtf . Lies & contradictions!!! .
I bet her agent or family told her how bad things look and that she has to "apologise" to save her career.And to hype up the whole "sensitivity" bs story to make people feel sorry for her ,it's pathetic and I still see through her .

Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10196788)

I really really don’t understand why people can’t see she’s only saying sorry because she got caught. If she never got brought up on it she would’ve gone about her day without the care of the world.

The panel was so bad all I want is one person who’s like not hyper blunt but just asks tough questions. He kept bringing up twitter abuse like who gives a ****. Then one of the dewds going oh they’re all just jumping (referring to the costars coming out) on the bandwagon of hate like ??? Then the one girl saying it’s a small thing that got blown up like do you think it would’ve been a small th8ng for Ryan if his career got destroyed? Was it a small thing for everyone else she’s labelled as a woman beater? Ugh utter waste of time

Originally Posted by saiwong;10196693 People who have been through trauma can easily be 'triggered' by certain actions however passive and non-aggressive,
and consequent action can be hurtful. The hurt is real but not intentional and [B

once the person has calmed down and see what they
have done they are apologetic.
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Roxy sould listen to Amelia and get professional counseling to help manage trauma.

Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10196760)

She’s inflicting trauma on other people with her trauma. A line has to be drawn somewhere.

Originally Posted by saiwong (Post 10196827)

From my own personal experience, a person who had past trauma has many ups and downs in temperament. However, when things manifest for the worse
the "illness" takes over their behaviour. Sometimes you don't know how much the person is there and how much the "illness".

Originally Posted by saiwong (Post 10196827)

From my own personal experience, a person who had past trauma has many ups and downs in temperament. However, when things manifest for the worse
the "illness" takes over their behaviour. Sometimes you don't know how much the person is there and how much the "illness".

Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10196788)

I really really don’t understand why people can’t see she’s only saying sorry because she got caught. If she never got brought up on it she would’ve gone about her day without the care of the world.

The panel was so bad all I want is one person who’s like not hyper blunt but just asks tough questions. He kept bringing up twitter abuse like who gives a ****. Then one of the dewds going oh they’re all just jumping (referring to the costars coming out) on the bandwagon of hate like ??? Then the one girl saying it’s a small thing that got blown up like do you think it would’ve been a small th8ng for Ryan if his career got destroyed? Was it a small thing for everyone else she’s labelled as a woman beater? Ugh utter waste of time

Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10196844)

This is what I hate about media & television, they know the allegations are disgusting & damaging yet they barely confront the person face to face & they seem to think by giving Roxanne a platform to give her fake apology makes everything ok again.

I've noticed that seems to be the attitude Where they think an apology and a long winded BS story solves everything. Well it doesn't as it wasn't a minor thing she accused Ryan if it was something ugly & big . And without video footage ,it would of probably affected Ryan's health & mind .

There's far too many co stars exposing her unstable manipulative ways ,if it was 3 actors with an ace ti grind against her then maybe she could say it's not true. But nobody can or should believe a word that comes out her mouth anyway .

21 actors !! Have had problems with her , which says a lot and I believe them .

As for the Twitter "abuse" it's actually people supporting Ryan and it affected viewers so obviously they're angry ,that's what the panel refused to address . And the people are telling the truth about her being a lying bitch and she can't handle it . That why she's backtracking and using terrible unforgivable excuses.

Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10196843)

Beaten as a child.
Sexually abused as a child.
Raped as a teenager.
All this and I have never felt the urge to lie due to any trauma.
She is a bloody fantasist.:fist:

Originally Posted by poppsywoppsy (Post 10196873)

Many years ago, I was married to an abusive man when I was young.

In those days, it was shameful for the woman to admit to it. When I could I left with my children.

I didn't use this as an excuse, for whatever else happened in my life, I moved on, stayed strong and met someone fantastic who I have been married to for many many years.

I didn't put those early hurts onto anyone else or take it out on anyone else so let's get it clear, it is not an automatic reaction to do so as so many women have not resorted to this unlike Roxanne.

She had the wherewithal and the money to get help if she felt threatened so many times and with so little reason, she is a grown woman in a public arena and has been around DV women and knows the steps to take if necessary.

What a poor excuse of a woman she is, she demeans us by her abusive nature towards others.

Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10196860)

The panel have little sympathy because it’s something they haven’t really dealt with hands on. Stuff like this is a relatively new circumstance because of our ever changing society. Hopefully this has helped people see nuance and understand a new perspective and issue.
Yeah media sux. They were able to hide how dangerous roxy is from the public eye desire the allegations stacking up. It’s all a spectacle, and in this case a politically polarised spectacle. I think Kim Woodburn, ironically, said it best. ‘Never trust what you see on tv’

Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10196843)

Beaten as a child.
Sexually abused as a child.
Raped as a teenager.
All this and I have never felt the urge to lie due to any trauma.
She is a bloody fantasist.:fist:

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 10196504)

..yeah completely...all it would mean for someone who would do that..is that they’re capable of behaving in an awful way as well to someone ...with no care of the impact on that person...behaving as Roxanne has...

Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10196843)

Beaten as a child.
Sexually abused as a child.
Raped as a teenager.
All this and I have never felt the urge to lie due to any trauma.
She is a bloody fantasist.:fist:

Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10196843)

Beaten as a child.
Sexually abused as a child.
Raped as a teenager.
All this and I have never felt the urge to lie due to any trauma.
She is a bloody fantasist.:fist: