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Beso 13-11-2018 08:43 AM

Can god "fix" your gayness?
 
https://www.itv.com/news/2018-11-12/...ave-to-be-gay/

Crimson Dynamo 13-11-2018 08:56 AM

"Prayer is, for many people, a powerful and spiritual experience.

Belief in God helps many religious people in their lives in numerous ways. I grew up in the church and understand how faith can be a strength and a comfort."

says the reporter

utter bollocks mate, where is your evidence, you are as bad as the criminal "pastor"

:bored:

Oliver_W 13-11-2018 09:03 AM

It would be nice for some if there was a cure for gayness, but I think the only way it'd be possible would be divine intervention...

Niamh. 13-11-2018 09:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 10346393)
It would be nice for some if there was a cure for gayness, but I think the only way it'd be possible would be divine intervention...

It's not a disease

Withano 13-11-2018 09:14 AM

I’m not gonna read the article but no

Crimson Dynamo 13-11-2018 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10346395)
It's not a disease

no but having only 3% of the population only available as a potential partner is limiting and society is almost 100% organised for hetro's so it must be a right pain in the you know what?

user104658 13-11-2018 09:34 AM

Well... organised religion at its core is about (and relies on) living in denial, so I suppose, if you can get someone to the point where they can convince themselves that organised religion is truth, then it's going to be pretty simple for that person to also delude themselves about their sexuality.

I'm carefully using the term "organised religion" here as really that's what we're talking about. Very little to do with the philosophical concept of God.

But yes, for anyone who believes in the validity of organised religion at all, you sort of have to believe that they can indeed "reverse" homosexuality, at least to the same extent of belief as the person would have in the religion itself.

:think:


Though in a purely objective sense, of course, the person is still gay and the religion still "false"... unless we start delving into the depths of ontology and metaphysics where you could argue that the delusion becomes the reality, at least for as long as it is a genuinely held belief.

user104658 13-11-2018 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10346407)
society is almost 100% organised for hetro's

:think: It's not like being in a wheelchair LT, what does this even mean? If anything (and this is probably a huge generalisation) other than the obvious issues with homophobia still being "a thing", in practical terms, society seems VERY well set up for the gay couples I'm friends with. Dual income, no kids, no one is going to have to take maternity leave and stall their career, permanent upwards trajectory... also frankly easier communication / more likely to have aligned interests than your classic "male/female" dynamic. Basically to me it seems like there's a lot of the appeal of "the single lifestyle" for them, but with the benefit of also having love and companionship. The only major difference I can see is in having kids / a family set up, which yes I appreciate many gay couples want and is hard, however it's only a problem for the couples who DO want children (not all do) and also, let's be blunt here, society is NOT set up for families at all these days. It's set up for ambitious singles and power couples :shrug:. Kids (and families with kids) are treated like an inconvenience pretty much everywhere you go.

smudgie 13-11-2018 10:17 AM

Nothing to fix.....it isn’t broke.:shrug:

Twosugars 13-11-2018 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10346407)
no but having only 3% of the population only available as a potential partner is limiting and society is almost 100% organised for hetro's so it must be a right pain in the you know what?

I'd say more like 5% and if you add bisexuals 10%
and ta for the concern, but gays never had a problem in finding one another
we have gaydar remember :smug: :p

Twosugars 13-11-2018 10:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10346418)
Well... organised religion at its core is about (and relies on) living in denial, so I suppose, if you can get someone to the point where they can convince themselves that organised religion is truth, then it's going to be pretty simple for that person to also delude themselves about their sexuality.

I'm carefully using the term "organised religion" here as really that's what we're talking about. Very little to do with the philosophical concept of God.

But yes, for anyone who believes in the validity of organised religion at all, you sort of have to believe that they can indeed "reverse" homosexuality, at least to the same extent of belief as the person would have in the religion itself.

:think:


Though in a purely objective sense, of course, the person is still gay and the religion still "false"... unless we start delving into the depths of ontology and metaphysics where you could argue that the delusion becomes the reality, at least for as long as it is a genuinely held belief.

I'd delve into any depths with you :flutter:

Matthew. 13-11-2018 10:26 AM

deleted my original post because idk if i worded it correctly

i thought that “conversion” practice was illegal? it’s scary that it’s still a thing tbh

Firewire 13-11-2018 10:32 AM

She can try then maybe I'd have a successful love life!

user104658 13-11-2018 10:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10346457)
I'd delve into any depths with you :flutter:

Not once Christ has finished with you, you won't :nono:

Twosugars 13-11-2018 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10346471)
Not once Christ has finished with you, you won't :nono:

I still would :devil:

Beso 13-11-2018 11:16 AM

I doubt he can, but I would like to think he could.

arista 13-11-2018 11:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10346441)
Nothing to fix.....it isn’t broke.:shrug:


Yes
its on a con.

Niamh. 13-11-2018 11:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10346519)
I doubt he can, but I would like to think he could.

Why? Are you gay and don't want to be or something?

Oliver_W 13-11-2018 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10346395)
It's not a disease

It's practically fatal in islamic countries.

Firewire 13-11-2018 11:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 10346532)
It's practically fatal in islamic countries.

Not just Islamic countries.

Niamh. 13-11-2018 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 10346532)
It's practically fatal in islamic countries.

mmm true enough

Crimson Dynamo 13-11-2018 11:56 AM

I am sure between them Kylie and Cher have converted many many men to homosexuality so who is doing a documentary about them and their evil converting ways?

:suspect:

Livia 13-11-2018 12:16 PM

My friend is a very happy gay man, married, settled... but he told me that, if he had been given a choice, he would have chosen to be heterosexual simply to live a life where he could marry and have a family with the person he loved. That's not to say he would try to "fix" his gayness because that's just ridiculous.

Smithy 13-11-2018 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10346407)
society is almost 100% organised for hetro's

I wonder who made it like that :think:

Livia 13-11-2018 12:21 PM

And one more thing... if you think God can fix your sexuality, it's like admitting that God makes mistakes. No one is a mistake.


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