21st Birthdays
 

I really don’t know what to do for mine :worry: I’ve had 3 very separate home/school/uni lives and I’m wondering having a party at home will burden ppl from boarding school and uni w the journey? And I haven’t kept in touch w school friends especially well so it’s hard to know who to invite from school? And will a big party be stressful?! And do I even like being centre of attention?!!

Ugh so many questions.

What did yall do for your 21st?

In my opinion it's a gorgeous excuse/opportunity for your diff friend groups to mingle! Your true friends will make la journey. (Unless it's like 57383 miles away)

Went out for a meal then went out.

It's nothing special

Yeah tea. I have like 50 ppl in mind I’d invite. I only want ppl who I’ve acc considered close friends at some point.

Idk whether to get parents and their friends involved tho?

Literally I have nightmares about who I'm gong to invite to my wedding even tho I'm a single girly and it'll be years away :skull:

Hmm a pickle! If it's a in a big function room thing then yes imo get ur fam involved

went to the pictures and came home and had beans on toast

parties are for children

Cinemas existed when you were 21? We-

Go on a cute city break in my opinion!

That.

when i say cinema I mean going to the loch at midnight and peering into the black water to see a ghostly reflection

:flutter:

My family threw me a party