Is there such thing as a slut anymore?
 

Do you judge people who sleep with a lot of other people as sluts? The term slut has kind of rightly been abandoned. If straight guys can sleep with a new girl every weekend then why judge girls / gay guys? Even if you don’t call someone a slut, do you still judge someone who is highly sexual and has many sexual partners and why?

as long as people are practicing safe sex and not knowingly or unknowingly spreading around std's then it doesn't matter to me

I'm against any word or phrase created by men to dehumanise women. If there is such a thing nowadays, there shouldn't be.

It’s gotten so watered down idt it means anything in a lot of circles anymore. That isn’t to say there still aren’t hyper prudes out there who like to shame ppl because of sex

I brought home some crab paste sandwiches earlier for someone special..she spat them out shouting...they taste like **** where did you get them........I walked into the kitchen past her..the ****ing chemist you slut.



So yes, there is.

At the end of the day.Anyone can sleep with as many people as they like.
It’s a free country.
But no one wants to settle down long term with the local bike.
That’s just how it is.
If you get a reputation around your area you’re probably limiting your options for long term relationships where you are known.
A kind of self fulfilling prophecy.
It’s not just men who judge women like this either.Women do it too I.E I’ve heard women say things like ‘er I wouldn’t go near her,She’s a right mucky cow’.

Why men aren’t judged in the same way.I’m not sure.Perhaps men having many sexual partners isn’t as much of a turn off for women?

I don't like the term and obviously it's down to individual choice how many people anyone sleeps with :shrug:. That said, I personally don't imagine it's a particularly fulfilling existence, but each to their own. It's not really about numbers, either, I just don't find the idea of rubbing off against a stranger appealing.

I also don't think it's even 100% true any more that women are judged for it and men aren't... there are plenty of women who would be put off by guys having a huge list of sexual "conquests".

Sluts.
Thought that went out with equality way back in the seventies.
You can have one hell of a lot of fun cycling....:blush:
Personally it’s up to the individual, you can have plenty of fun and then meet your soulmate and settle down. Worked well for me.:shrug: