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I look forward to reading it, mainly because a. I'll have forgotten this in the morning so seeing a thread on the side in the next few days will remind me, and b. you've got some good points already so it'll be good to see them more developed Night (: sleep well |
We had sex ed in year 9 (14 years old) in school which was too late really. One girl from our year was already pregnant by the time we got it and I think at 14 I was well aware really.
I can't remember if anal sex was discussed. The teacher who took our sex ed was a mess though she was discussing masturbation and asked a class full about how girls can masturbate safely at home and it literally decended into chaos of people shouting out objects to shove up your fudgie |
Times like this make me wish I could turn on selective amnesia.
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All.I'm saying is that if anal sex is taught in schools then it must be taught to everyone, and I think as a father myself that not very many fathers will be happy about thier 13 14 yr old daughters being taught about boys sticking thier willies up thier bums.. I don't think that's to much to ask. |
Making threads like this, you get some members trying to make the poster out as some weirdo.
Sex education should start with this statement, firstly we are all individuals and should respect each other regardless of gender, race or sexual orientation . Our sex Ed was showing how to put a condom on a banana I think,long time ago, and that as a girl you should not be pressured into having sex. I do remember one girl called Emma throwing up over the floor. |
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I think you would be shocked at what kids know by the age of ten. Sit near a group of kids in McDonald’s and hear the language they are using and what they are talking about, it’s an eye opener to say the least. |
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Well if any of them mentioned a fudgie I would be thinking they were on about the new milkshake flavours. |
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I actually think porn should be brought up in sex ed classes with teenagers, in a "don't use this as a how to manual" kind of a way. It definitely could give people unreal and unfair expectations of partners
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You went to the nurse at my school and she gave you a c card for free condoms.
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Tbh I think an important part of that conversation has to be that there is no 100% safe way to have anal sex, and make it clear that you only EVER have to engage in sex acts that you enjoy and are comfortable with. Women don't "have to" have anal sex, Homosexual men don't "have to" have anal sex, and in fact I believe statistically the majority of encounters for most gay men involve manual and oral, and anal is less common (or never for many).
Basically there should obviously be no judgement for everyone enjoying whatever they want to enjoy consensually, but there are HUGE myths around anal sex being "expected" of women, and "essential" for gay men, and those are pretty damaging in themselves. |
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Also inexperienced guys thinking that the woman "clearly isn't enjoying it" if she isn't screeching and convulsing around the bed - or women believing that they have to put on that "show" to convey that they are having a good time :hehe:. |
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I get your concerns but surely you would think parents would have to sign a consent form of some sort beforehand. And come on, what on earth are schools thinking about giving out condoms in school hours..surely that's inticing children to break the law...it's weird like...bit of a catch 22 really. |
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As for "enticing", I don't think it works like that, but no I wouldn't advocate them "giving out" condoms to everyone as standard... just that they should be available for people to take freely / discreetly. Like I said the alternative is usually unprotected sex rather than abstaining. Also I'd assume we're talking about 13/14+ year olds here, not young children. |
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Yeah but don't you have to be 16 to legqally have sex in the uk, so by handing out the condoms to underagers the schools are actually aiding and abetting a possible crime? |
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