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Owoaje1993 14-07-2019 02:17 PM

Males in the media, society and life
 
In my opinion I feel like males get portrayed wrongly and unfairly in society saying that males have to be confident, tough , strong, the boss, act like they are the hard man and be cocky.

Me being a male myself I would not say I’m a confident person or athletic , I’d say I’m Someone who has feelings and I get shy and vulnerable

I also feel like with women they get tons of support for opening up about their feelings and they would always have someone to talk to

Where as with males they get laughed at or get told to man up or if someone is straight but don’t like doing things that are considered too ladish they get considered gay or weird and a freak plus I feel like there is very little support and help for guys about opening their feelings

Plus I feel that the media make males come across wrong by being portrayed as cheaters, aggressive etc but from my experience women are just as bad there is no in between they are as bad as each other however I do also find a lot of good males and females out there to

Do others on here agree? And what is your opinion on this?

Beso 14-07-2019 02:38 PM

Yes..many agreed with those statements way back at the start of the millennium. Are you a bear?

Nicky91 14-07-2019 03:46 PM

this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story :laugh3:

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim

Owoaje1993 14-07-2019 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626579)
this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story :laugh3:

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim

I’m not saying men are never in the wrong for things I just feel women get more support and advice when it comes to being insecure and vulnerable where as guys don’t get the same amount of support which I think is wrong everyone should get the same amount of support and advice

Nicky91 14-07-2019 03:55 PM

true, but still women first for me :love:

Marsh. 14-07-2019 04:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626579)
this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story :laugh3:

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim

:umm2:

Nicky91 14-07-2019 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10626599)
:umm2:

what?

i can't speak for everyone ok, but i'm the type of man who isn't gonna cry in public

Morgan. 14-07-2019 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626605)
what?

i can't speak for everyone ok, but i'm the type of man who isn't gonna cry in public

Nicky you cry when someone tells you you change favourites too much you don’t need to lie

Marsh. 14-07-2019 04:14 PM

:facepalm:

Marsh. 14-07-2019 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626591)
true, but still women first for me :love:

In your porn queue? ahem

Beso 14-07-2019 04:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Owoaje1993 (Post 10626587)
I’m not saying men are never in the wrong for things I just feel women get more support and advice when it comes to being insecure and vulnerable where as guys don’t get the same amount of support which I think is wrong everyone should get the same amount of support and advice

There is all the support a man would need out there...they just don't chose to take it...and perhaps that's down to what you describe in your op.

Nicky91 14-07-2019 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Morgan. (Post 10626608)
Nicky you cry when someone tells you you change favourites too much you don’t need to lie

this place is a forum, not real life in public ;)

and i change my favourites the many uncountable times as i want myself :smug:

Beso 14-07-2019 04:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626620)
this place is a forum, not real life in public ;)

and i change my favourites the many uncountable times as i want myself :smug:

I find people who change thier favourites are more honest and don't blindly support someone just cause they picked them at the start...you be you pal x

Redway 14-07-2019 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626605)
what?

i can't speak for everyone ok, but i'm the type of man who isn't gonna cry in public

LMFAO.

Kate! 14-07-2019 07:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Owoaje1993 (Post 10626452)
In my opinion I feel like males get portrayed wrongly and unfairly in society saying that males have to be confident, tough , strong, the boss, act like they are the hard man and be cocky.

Me being a male myself I would not say I’m a confident person or athletic , I’d say I’m Someone who has feelings and I get shy and vulnerable

I also feel like with women they get tons of support for opening up about their feelings and they would always have someone to talk to

Where as with males they get laughed at or get told to man up or if someone is straight but don’t like doing things that are considered too ladish they get considered gay or weird and a freak plus I feel like there is very little support and help for guys about opening their feelings

Plus I feel that the media make males come across wrong by being portrayed as cheaters, aggressive etc but from my experience women are just as bad there is no in between they are as bad as each other however I do also find a lot of good males and females out there to

Do others on here agree? And what is your opinion on this?

Owoaje. I totally agree with you.

Its a crying shame that men feel they have to be 'strong' whereas sometimes it takes more strength to actually open up and talk to someone. :love:

Redway 14-07-2019 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 10626591)
true, but still women first for me :love:

You don't have to lie to make yourself seem more interesting.

Redway 14-07-2019 08:01 PM

There ain't a single person you've convinced with that lie Nicky. Not a single one.

Beso 14-07-2019 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10626857)
You don't have to lie to make yourself seem more interesting.

He will be waited on hand and foot.

Calderyon 14-07-2019 08:17 PM

You're too late. His internet has been switched off for today.

Redway 14-07-2019 08:35 PM

Not only that but his mum's tucked him in bed with a bottle of milk.


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