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Kate! 22-06-2020 05:49 PM

What would you do?
 
If your best friend suddenly out of the blue cut you off without a word when everything was fine between you.

If they didn't return your texts...didn't answer their phone...blocked you on facebook. Etc.

It would be like they had died.

Would you take it on the chin? Or move heaven and earth to find out whats wrong?

Kate! 22-06-2020 06:05 PM

Its just happened to me. I feel like I have been bereaved.

joeysteele 22-06-2020 06:08 PM

I can't imagine any of my friends doing that.

If it happened, I'd seek them out probably to ask why.
However, I wouldn't press the issue.

Smithy 22-06-2020 06:13 PM

It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss :shrug: noodle headed prick :hmph:

Kate! 22-06-2020 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 10867947)
It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss :shrug: noodle headed prick :hmph:

It is horrible yes.

AnnieK 22-06-2020 06:56 PM

If it were my best friend I would go to her hoise for an explanation. I couldn't not know what I was supposed to have done.

Might be lockdown fever Kate....give her some time

Kate! 22-06-2020 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10867977)
If it were my best friend I would go to her hoise for an explanation. I couldn't not know what I was supposed to have done.

Might be lockdown fever Kate....give her some time

Exactly. I don't know what is wrong??

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 22-06-2020 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 10867947)
It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss :shrug: noodle headed prick :hmph:

Is this that giant forehead having billboard forehead looking ass

Marsh. 22-06-2020 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 10867947)
It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss :shrug: noodle headed prick :hmph:

Scott doesn't look like a noodle. :nono:

Kate! 22-06-2020 07:03 PM

I don't want replies about bloody noodles :fist:

Marsh. 22-06-2020 07:04 PM

:(

Cherie 22-06-2020 07:16 PM

I can't imagine any of my true friends doing that either.

Imagine not replying to someone when you ask them a question...

Bin her

Smithy 22-06-2020 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fetch The Bolt Cutters (Post 10867984)
Is this that giant forehead having billboard forehead looking ass

Nnnn yeah

Jake. 22-06-2020 07:24 PM

Not the same as a best friend doing it but I had it done by someone I was seeing/dating and uh yeah, it’s not pleasant. Best thing you can do is to leave it imo, as hard as it is.

Beso 22-06-2020 07:25 PM

Txt..

Have I done something to upset you.

Kate! 22-06-2020 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10868008)
Txt..

Have I done something to upset you.

Ignoring all my texts phonecalls and facebook messages.

Beso 22-06-2020 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 10868009)
Ignoring all my texts phonecalls and facebook messages.


Shred them.

Or give them a week then try again.


I just hope you ain't upset pal x

Kate! 22-06-2020 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10868018)
Shred them.

Or give them a week then try again.


I just hope you ain't upset pal x

I am Parmy. Not eating or sleepimg well at all.

Beso 22-06-2020 07:38 PM

Have a blether with annie..shes an honest person.

Got a joke for you if you want:sad:

The Slim Reaper 22-06-2020 07:39 PM

Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.

The Slim Reaper 22-06-2020 07:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10868024)
Have a blether with annie..shes an honest person.

Got a joke for you if you want:sad:

The joke isn't the first line? :smug:

Kate! 22-06-2020 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper (Post 10868025)
Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.

Thank you. Xx

Beso 22-06-2020 07:40 PM

There it is....

Beso 22-06-2020 07:41 PM

I see it

Brother Leon 22-06-2020 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper (Post 10868025)
Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.

This. This. This.

I’ve had many friends move on from me. It used to hurt and make me question why, but I don’t really care right now.

In my case it was mostly due to me no longer being Interested in taking every drug or drink I can get my hands on anymore and generally not wanting to have many nights out or “memories” like that anymore and before that it was growing out of the “hood” mindset.

The quicker you realise your self worth and that a friendship thrown away THAT easily was never one worth having, then the better for your mindset. Just straight up ask them what’s up and if you don’t like the response then it’s better off without.


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