Could you be in a relationship with someone who...
Earns a considerable amount more than yourself? Or would you feel uncomfortable in that sort of situation?
I was talking to a friend about it and although in theory I think I could do it, when it came to stuff like gift giving or anything like I’d always feel like it was never enough. What do we all think? :pipe: |
Yeah, of course. It's money not a worldview.
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how much is the difference
like one earns 50K a year and one earns 250k? |
Yep in a heartbeat..
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Of course. And I'd be extra nice on paydays.
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In a long term relationship it becomes irrelevant, or should, in my opinion. You share resources :shrug:.
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When, as you say, if you're intending to be with that person for life, have kids etc it shouldn't really matter. |
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My mum and dad have always been very much what’s mine is yours regardless of who has been earning more at any one time (atm they both pretty much earn the same) and I’d hope to carry that on into a long term relationship of my own so yeah.
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I don't think it would bother me, tbh. I don't really understand how it could bother anyone.
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Yes because money doesn't define a person
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Of course
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The idea obviously sounds nice, but in reality I’d probably feel like a scrounger if they paid for things all the time and whatnot
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Why would I care?:laugh:
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...I guess if it was flipped the other way, you wouldn’t not get into a romantic relationship with someone who earns considerably less../...I’m sorry, I can’t live you, your salary just isn’t high enough...:laugh:..?...for me and I think for many...it’s always been an equal ‘contribution’ in terms of percentage of income...
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Mr C and I have always shared what we earned, he earned more once we had kids as he worked full time, thinking about who paid for what is not healthy imo, if you are both happy with the arrangement then it wont be an issue, but then it depends on the people involved, if one is a spender and the other is tight with money it could lead to issues
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Yes, my husband earns a lot more money than I do, it doesnt bother me.
We share everything and always have for over 20 years so theres no his or mine it's just 'ours' we obviously have separate bank accounts as well as joint accounts but I have a card for his personal account too :hee: |
I kind of already do, my boyfriend has his own business and earns considerably more than I do on a carers wage.
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I couldn’t sign those marriage papers any faster
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