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parmnion 05-03-2021 02:12 PM

Are you a master at smoothing things over.
 
I am.:hee:

Marsh. 05-03-2021 02:18 PM

Sure.

Cherie 05-03-2021 02:23 PM

Great stuff :hee:

Cherie 05-03-2021 02:24 PM

I can work my way around a tricky situation most of the time

parmnion 05-03-2021 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11011045)
Great stuff :hee:

Thank you.

Captain.Remy 05-03-2021 03:04 PM

I became better at it with time.
I guess playing rugby helped me a lot because when I was younger I had no problem getting into it with others and didn't want to calm things down. But then I have learnt how to diffuse a situation in a team and talk things through. I confused getting heated vs putting your point across by not getting heated.
I'm way more patient now and can find ways to calm a situation down.

Same in my family and friends. I kind of have always been the "big brother" or the one hosting debates or trying to calm things down in a group. Even at work, I'm usually seen as the neutral one, and having a managing position puts that to the test too. Because really some days you just want to either shout at everybody or quit :joker: But you need to talk it out and take a deep breath and smooth it over as much as possible to get the best out of a possible bad situation.

And thank God I married someone who also smooths things out too. Makes it ten times easier at home.

Kate! 05-03-2021 03:55 PM

Yes I'm good at smoothing things over. Usually with a touch of humour. Both for other people as a go between when they have fallen out and for myself when I've put my mouth in gear before my brain which happens often as I am hot-headed. Xx

Cherie 05-03-2021 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11011056)
Thank you.

Love the status Parmy :laugh:

rusticgal 05-03-2021 04:00 PM

yup...only when I choose to :laugh:

parmnion 05-03-2021 04:10 PM

With a little help from 2 other people today, (one rather famous one, and me and my ex apprentice) well the 3 of us working together managed to save 26 other peopes jobs.

bitontheslide 05-03-2021 04:11 PM

why would i smooth something over when it's much more rewarding to stir it up :laugh:

Cherie 05-03-2021 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11011140)
With a little help from 2 other people today, (one rather famous one, and me and my ex apprentice) well the 3 of us working together managed to save 26 other peopes jobs.

:clap1: King of saving jobs despite the lying scum

parmnion 05-03-2021 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11011143)
:clap1: King of saving jobs despite the scum

You forgot the word lying in front of the word..scum is a bit strong though.

People are people at the end of the day.

rusticgal 05-03-2021 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11011140)
With a little help from 2 other people today, (one rather famous one, and me and my ex apprentice) well the 3 of us working together managed to save 26 other peopes jobs.


OMG...well done you

Cherie 05-03-2021 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11011145)
You forgot the word lying in front of the word..scum is a bit strong though.

People are people at the end of the day.

Fixed

rusticgal 05-03-2021 04:18 PM

I managed to pacify many angry passengers who didnt get their seat on the plane..:hehe:

parmnion 05-03-2021 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011146)
OMG...well done you

Well done them tbh...it was me that dropped them both in the situation they found themselves in at 11am this morning.

But hey, people are people and they dont hide away from situations forced upon them by vindictive horrible people. What they do is pick up the phone and man up.

parmnion 05-03-2021 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011148)
I managed to pacify many angry passengers who didnt get their seat on the plane..:hehe:

Tell us.:wavey:

rusticgal 05-03-2021 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11011152)
Tell us.:wavey:


Passengers that get 'bumped' when the plane is overbooked....obviously not happy bunnies. It was part of my job to deal with them...
I loved it though....to pacify and reassure and to turn the whole situation around gave me a great deal of satisfaction.

Cherie 05-03-2021 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011163)
Passengers that get 'bumped' when the plane is overbooked....obviously not happy bunnies. It was part of my job to deal with them...
I loved it though....to pacify and reassure and to turn the whole situation around gave me a great deal of satisfaction.


I would be useless, i would have them sitting on other peoples laps to get them away :laugh:

rusticgal 05-03-2021 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11011165)
I would be useless, i would have them sitting on other peoples laps to get them away :laugh:


I could tell you a few stories...:laugh:

Cherie 05-03-2021 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011166)
I could tell you a few stories...:laugh:

Do they get paid to come off the flight?

Alf 05-03-2021 04:36 PM

I'll let Mr Clough answer this for me.



parmnion 05-03-2021 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011148)
I managed to pacify many angry passengers who didnt get their seat on the plane..:hehe:

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11011163)
Passengers that get 'bumped' when the plane is overbooked....obviously not happy bunnies. It was part of my job to deal with them...
I loved it though....to pacify and reassure and to turn the whole situation around gave me a great deal of satisfaction.


How did you smooth it over...

Free hotel and bar?..cause I would love that tbh.

parmnion 05-03-2021 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 11011171)
I'll let Mr Clough answer this for me.



That man is a legend.:joker:


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