help. What is happening here?
 

I have asked Tibb Staff why my thread was closed but had no reply? Also another Meghan thread has been closed?

Are we not to discuss her?

As what usually happens...it starts getting personal. :shrug:

I didnt feel it did though Rusti. I've seen a lot worse.

Must be what posters have said
have broken rules.

We can discuss her
but not by fighting each other poster


I am sure Admin will post, the reason why
at some point.

Reading through it, it was getting personal, for example some were determined to take Kazanne up the wrong way no matter how she explained herself and were quite hostile towards her.

Kate until people can control the venom and hatred they have in their heart towards Meghan and forum members I think it's best they stay closed. You're always welcome in the fanclub thread x

Do you mean the 'Does anyone genuinely think (and worry for) Meghan potentially ending up like Diana.' thread?

I looked at the last page at it was just people getting personal with each other, so I closed it. A lot of the posts got deleted after that.

Well can we have it reopen now its been cleaned?

How about that works both ways. The only venom I saw as you put it was from people who couldn't take, a difference of opinion they are the ones, who mention hate all the time, not, seen anyone say they hate her but it's, always spun that way by people trying to shut others down until people can accept others views without getting hostile discussions will never work.

I stay out of the Meghan threads now Kaz as all that ever could possibly be said has been but there is definitely hostility on BOTH sides. Both sides accuse each other of venom and being blinded by love/hate and I have seen both sides get personal. :shrug:

I agree to a point Annie but I honestly have not, seen anyone say they hate her. They just have different opinions and as soon as they do the hate word is rolled out as though we are terrible human beings. You can imo point out things you don't agree with or like without hating people but yes I agree best to stay out of them :wavey:

Hate / love are just words and its all just semantics, I don't really get hung up on the words people use. You can clearly see those who no matter what she did would deride her and equally those who no matter what she did would defend her.

I'm like you, very much on the fence. She has done nothing to offend me personally, she is just her. My ambivalent opinion may change if the bullying accusations are founded as I abhor bullies but if they are founded my opinion of the Royal Family business will also suffer as they should have done something. But that's a whole other conversation and I have packed lunch to make and belligerent 10 year old to get sorted for school :laugh:

You have a good day. :love:

Good Post Annie and summed up well. You have a good day too and Lol I have 2 packed lunches to do too, the joys of motherhood xx

...I agree that these Meghan and Harry threads...(...and it’s more Meghan...)...are really something that achieve very little..(if anything..)...positive anymore...although they obviously have a popularity because they’re so hugely posted in so as much as many are feeling all Meghan and Harry'd out, there are obviously those who don’t feel that....when threads are closed, it’s understandable to see why because (...from all sides it’s become personal...)...there is no higher ground that any of us can take with that, I think...but it also would obviously add to emotions or frustrations etc...?...so if a similar veined thread is opened the next day, etc...personal stuff just carries into that other thread and then that other one and then that other one etc...maybe letting the thread run and letting it wear itself out organically would be a thing as well..?...it’s a difficult call, I know...

Can I just say as someone who posts in these threads, not everyone gets personal, some people can actually post without doing that.

No one said everyone did. :shrug:

Just making the point it's the same people all the time, and tbh the word hater means nothing to me know it is so over used on TiBB , with 'living rent free in your head' coming in a close second :laugh:

...I think the thing that we’re all here on a BB/reality TV show site is that so may of us have a love of reality TV, obviously...and some of the most ‘animated’ BB series that I recall, have been those with a ‘hero/villain’ aspect...it’s something that we can discuss to death and beyond and we’re obviously all seeing similar but our perspectives are entirely different...and there is a definite relatability with this topic, I think...in the absence of TV reality shows being made this last year and some obvious issues within the Royal establishment...the whole topic is something that’s engaged emotions that I wonder would have been anywhere near creating so much interest and activity, had we not been in lockdown era...and spending quite a bit of time here etc...and the main focus of alternate news being COVID...

...said Cherie, getting personal :joker:

just stating facts :smug:

Make two separate threads

The "I worship Meghan like a God, fanclub"

The "Meghan lies like Pinocchio, Fan club"

As no negative comments are allowed in fan club threads, the problem is solved, and you can all have your opinions unchallenged.

Seems like there are quite a few people who come into the threads to tell us that the thread should not have been made and that they are not interested in it and therefore dont understand why some of us are

then they stay in the thread and snipe sarcastically page after page

"imagine thinking that...yada yada"

|"its quite unbelievable that people think this.."

"people who think this are obsessed haters"

"of course you know that"

"only weak minded gullible fool could hold this view"

and so forth

It just sows discord

:(

:hehe:

yeah CERTAIN people need to stop deleting threads.

We can all leave you know and then who will you have to rule over?
You'll never have a power trip again in your sad life.