omg, I think I have got a date.
 

I haven't been on a date in yearsss!!

we're just organising because my scheduele is busy and so is his.

i am going to need lots of help.

How do you sit? When do you smile? What you can do? wHat you can't do?

OOOOO, And what to wear? Very important.

He's already given me his number after like an hour of us telling each other how hot we are :joker:

You will Do Well, Thomas.


Relax more, will help.


Pack Condoms

Yeah, I do need to relax more. That is very sound advice.

LOL, I won't be packing condoms. He's not after NSA so I doubt he'd want to shag me on a first date.

If he was into just fun I would have already shagged him :joker:

I'd you need to relax more, may I suggest taking some poppers with you..

Drink enough before so that you're confident, not so much that you're slurring

Wear a shirt

Dont mention the war

Don’t order spaghetti

LOVE Poppers

hmm, nah, I don't think I'll drink, I'll be driving.

hmm, nahhh

I wouldn't know much about it tbh

oh god, I did that once, never again :joker:

You are a nice guy Thomas just be yourself

Is it with Smithy

….meanwhile on another forum, how he is right now and what he’s posting and his own excitement to be having a date with this gorgeous Thomas guy…?…

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…don’t be nervous, don’t place any expectations on it, it’s just a lovely evening out with a guy you’ll get to know a bit better…it may lead to other dates, it may not…but make it a lovely evening…chill, relax and be the lovely that you are…(…whatever you wear will look sensational, I’m pretty sure..)…

…enjoy your date, Thomas…:love:…he’s a lucky guy….

Aww, thanks mate.

No. He's not interested :joker:

Awww, that is so nice of you to say.

I get social anxiety on dates.

I just hope he looks like his pictures.

…(…I know that it’s easier said that done…)…but try not to think of it as a date because that’s the attachment of the anxiety….it’s just an evening out and an opportunity to get to know someone new …and getting to know people is something you enjoy doing, Thomas …there’s no pressure of anything else, it’s a win/win evening and we’ve all had so few of those type of social evenings in the last while, to expand our circle of friendships and acquaintances….:hug:…

Didn't you facetime beforehand? , hopefully it's not a catfish

Yeah this is true. Another friend if nothing else.

Nope, we have only been speaking since yesterday. I don't like Facetime.

So you've seen photos and heard his voice? , what if he doesn't look like his photos?.

No I haven't heard his voice. I've seen 4/5 photos.

Well, we just won't meet again.

I'm quite open minded in that I'm happy with friends too so nothing ventured, nothing gained.

On the previous dates I've been on, and it has been years, I just end up doing all the talking. :joker:

Good luck