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arista 21-05-2024 12:52 AM

Courteney Cox's comments that she still "senses" co-star Matthew Perry around her,
 
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Zizu 21-05-2024 02:15 AM

Yawn


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Mystic Mock 21-05-2024 03:34 AM

Tbf, some people do feel like that they sense someone close to them is still with them spiritually when the person has not long passed away.

I will give her the benefit of the doubt for now.

Zizu 21-05-2024 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11453950)
Tbf, some people do feel like that they sense someone close to them is still with them spiritually when the person has not long passed away.

I will give her the benefit of the doubt for now.


Usually a very , very close relative though

Not someone she / they barely bothered with ( apparently)


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Crimson Dynamo 21-05-2024 07:11 AM

its a nonsense

Zizu 21-05-2024 07:15 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11453970)
its a nonsense


Sounds like she’s done it to put herself in the spotlight …


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Mystic Mock 21-05-2024 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11453969)
Usually a very , very close relative though

Not someone she / they barely bothered with ( apparently)


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Usually you are correct.

Like I remember for about the first three months after my Mom's passing, I thought that I could see her by the Wardrobe in my bedroom at night.

Your mind can definitely play tricks on you during the initial grieving process.

So was Courtney Cox not close to Matthew Perry?

Oliver_W 21-05-2024 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11453969)
Usually a very , very close relative though

Not someone she / they barely bothered with ( apparently)


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And maybe she feels guilty for not bothering, so her mind is creating a posthumous connection to compensate for the lack of a living one.

Cherie 21-05-2024 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11453987)
Usually you are correct.

Like I remember for about the first three months after my Mom's passing, I thought that I could see her by the Wardrobe in my bedroom at night.

Your mind can definitely play tricks on you during the initial grieving process.

So was Courtney Cox not close to Matthew Perry?

How long ago did your Mom pass away Mock?

Niamh. 21-05-2024 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 11453994)
And maybe she feels guilty for not bothering, so her mind is creating a posthumous connection to compensate for the lack of a living one.

Exactly, she worked with him for years, she's allowed speak about him. Courtney Cox doesn't come across as an attention seeker to me

Vanessa 21-05-2024 10:24 AM

I know they were friends, but not sure how close they were. Im sure she genuinely misses him.

GoldHeart 21-05-2024 10:26 AM

She worked closely with him on Friends for years,so I wouldn't say she's not close. Maybe after friends ended they didn't see eachother often,but I assume they remained friendly.

Beso 21-05-2024 10:29 AM

I'm the same with jimmy saville.

Zizu 21-05-2024 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 11453994)
And maybe she feels guilty for not bothering, so her mind is creating a posthumous connection to compensate for the lack of a living one.


Maybe …


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Zizu 21-05-2024 10:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11453987)
Usually you are correct.

Like I remember for about the first three months after my Mom's passing, I thought that I could see her by the Wardrobe in my bedroom at night.

Your mind can definitely play tricks on you during the initial grieving process.

So was Courtney Cox not close to Matthew Perry?


As I understand it .. he became a recluse with all manner of issues. They all lost contact with him according to the article I read some time ago


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arista 21-05-2024 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11454015)
I'm the same with jimmy saville.


Nasty

Zizu 21-05-2024 10:47 AM

She just recently posted this which may explain why he’s on her mind / conscience ..

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6pXe...dyZnpvNmFxc3Zt


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Beso 21-05-2024 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 11454034)
Nasty

Feel free to weep into your pillow

Niamh. 21-05-2024 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11454036)
She just recently posted this which may explain why he’s on her mind / conscience ..

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6pXe...dyZnpvNmFxc3Zt


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aww :love:

GoldHeart 21-05-2024 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11454036)
She just recently posted this which may explain why he’s on her mind / conscience ..

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6pXe...dyZnpvNmFxc3Zt


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Exactly
And whether he lost contact with his castmates or not , during friends they all seemed to get on really well. So of course she'll be missing him.

Ammi 21-05-2024 11:01 AM

…Courteney does quantify and expand what she said by saying that she also ‘feels and talks’ to her, who I think are both no longer alive…I mean, they’re all people that she’s been close to in her life and looked to for guidance at certain points…she’s said that about Matthew Perry in the past, that he has also been a guidance in her life at times…I know that his life also had many struggles and in later times, but that’s not all he was…and Courteney worked very closely with him so she would have known many of his character complexities also…I think many of us who have lost people close who have had influence in our time knowing them …?….can relate to what she’s saying and in the context that she’s saying it etc…

Ammi 21-05-2024 11:03 AM

…I do think that ‘visits from the grave’ is a Daily Star ‘sensationalised’ type headline that just diminishes and cheapens a sincere meaning of something…but that’s what tabloids often do…

Niamh. 21-05-2024 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11454053)
…I do think that ‘visits from the grave’ is a Daily Star ‘sensationalised’ type headline that just diminishes and cheapens a sincere meaning of something…but that’s what tabloids often do…

Absolutely

user104658 21-05-2024 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 11453994)
And maybe she feels guilty for not bothering, so her mind is creating a posthumous connection to compensate for the lack of a living one.

I don't even think it's "not bothering" - they may once have been close but watching someone descend into addiction is painful and terrible, separating from it emotionally is often inevitable and when they're gone, yes, it comes with a TONNE of guilt. My mum descended into severe alcoholism when I was in my late teens, and was dead before I was 30 - so really at the specific age range where I was in no way cut out to deal with any of it, and focussed on my own life. I still went to visit her, but not very often. I still took her calls and talked to her, but I was never the one to call. When someone is gone and you have a few years of hindsight, it's hard not to feel guilty... or at least, regretful about "what ifs".

Niamh. 21-05-2024 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Soldier Boy (Post 11454076)
I don't even think it's "not bothering" - they may once have been close but watching someone descend into addiction is painful and terrible, separating from it emotionally is often inevitable and when they're gone, yes, it comes with a TONNE of guilt. My mum descended into severe alcoholism when I was in my late teens, and was dead before I was 30 - so really at the specific age range where I was in no way cut out to deal with any of it, and focussed on my own life. I still went to visit her, but not very often. I still took her calls and talked to her, but I was never the one to call. When someone is gone and you have a few years of hindsight, it's hard not to feel guilty... or at least, regretful about "what ifs".

You're obviously going to feel a bit of guilt, especially as it was your mother but people with addictions like that really need to come to a point themselves where they're ready to get help and that seems to come when they lose people and hit "rock bottom" from what I've seen.


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