Why Ali finds it so hard to handle Khaled
 

It's his calmness.

Ali is used to having her ability to stay clinical and calm win arguments for her, clearly. Even if the other has a better more valid point, the winner will always be the one that manages to do so and everything that she says is a stone cold bullet intended to make the other angry and lose it.

But Khaled is some kind of zen master. I don't know how he does it, tbh.

He is far better at handling someone like Ali than me... I would have happily and loudly called her a ****ing bitch as she walked away from me like she did him, especially at his age :laugh::laugh:

Yeah, you might be on to something, i wish I was like that :laugh:

No matter the tone or demeanor of Khaled he would still upset the red witch ,but you might have a point about it driving her nuts that he's so calm. So she's trying the tactic of " ohhh he's trying to be the nice guy " and blah blah.

But I guarantee if he raised his voice, actually got angry and confrontational , then she'd be calling him ' thug' , ' threatening ' & ' scary' . You know she'd be milking it more & pulling a Roxanne Pallet ,and ask BB to provide a safe space for her.

she is genuinely obsessed :worry:

Dean responds, “Hanah’s raging… because her two friends are up. If the shoe was on the other foot, this would not be happening.”

Ali says, “Should’ve just thrown them all to the wolves… Throw them all to me, I’m the wolf.”

Dean responds, “Yeah but, you’re [Hanah] making it a personal thing about, ‘oh cause they’re like my brothers’. Okay but they’re not.”

Ali says, “And I think maybe a little bit influenced by them to be honest.”

Dean says, “I massively think that cause she was fine yesterday.”

Ali continues, “A bit manipulated actually, so if she’s a pawn in anyone’s game, she’s a pawn in Khaled’s game cause she’s been manipulated to be on side.”

Dean says, “It’s a witch hunt Ali. It’s against you. They’re trying to take you down.” he simped

She cannot self-reflect. She's spent most of her time in the house trying to take Khaled down, but now it might be an issue he has decided to fight fire with fire?

Well if you need to resort to swearing you have lost the argument before it even begins.

I like Ali's quick way of dealing with confrontation. She says what she says and walks away. It's annoying when the same confrontation is repeated such as Daze and Nathan

It's refreshing for someone to just say, we don't get on, we don't like each other and that's fine.

They're spot on. They are trying to take her down. They said that themselves.

The difference is that it's 3 against 1

She's ignorant & rude , she walked off and dismissed Khaled in mid conversation in the most patronising condescending way . If he did that to her ... she'd be so offended , the whole house wouldn't hear the end of it . Her passive aggressive nature is extremely ugly .

She causes all the drama & upset and then tries to play victim afterwards.

Do you know what passive aggressive behaviour is?

She had it out with him 1:1, what is passive about that? She was to the point.

Khaled likes to resolve things, sometimes things won't be resolved and that is OK

Yep

sad to see her unravel in such a public way

:sad:

Pathetic


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Of course they are - because she's doing the same to them. She tried using Hanah as a pawn to save Lily, and has been targetting Khaled from the off. There was going to come a moment when the confrontation was going to widen.

The irony is, if Khaled had phrased it "It's really difficult, isn't it?", or if Ali had just replied, "Yeah, it was really difficult", none of this would be happening. They did seem to be getting on better at the end of last week and it feels like it has blown up over something really minor.

Maybe BB should book her into a therapy class as the patient.

This for me.
I agree.

He actually starts by saying a lot but then clams up after.
Seemingly having no comeback to what she says in the end.

Because everything Khaled says she likes to scrutinise into something big . red witch is the one turning it into one big argument .

While Ali continues to walk away the issue will never be resolved. He keeps trying with her goodness knows why but it has zero effect because Ali doesn't want to move forward.
Khaled is a real credit to his family, he is calm, he is so tolerant and he is a really nice guy. If being fake and too nice is all she has then the game is already over. Khaled is a true gent and there isn't that many around on tv shows like this.

He is always willing to give that olive branch and put things to bed but she is so stubborn.

I love the way Khaled always stays calm.

It’s because he’s fake as a £30 note and she deals with reality and fact

A bit hard to have a comeback when she doesn't allow him to say much before walking away.

Marcello even told her that Khaled has said nothing bad about her ,and all she can do is still moan about how Khaled is " trying to look good" . She has such a unhealthy hatred for Khaled.

She can't take the fact that Khaled is decent and nice . Whilst she continues to be a miserable bitter person full of deep rooted
issues. If he had been slagging her off and acting loud and boisterous ,she would still hate it . So once again she can't stand Khaled simply just existing .

She's the only one going on about camera's and what the outside world will think . Why is she on BB :bored: .

What is wrong with not wanting to resolve something?

He's so willing to give olive branches he brings something up that was put to bed even though he was advised to wait until the next day

He doesn't even try after she's tied him up in knots.
Probably because he has no relevant answers.

I don't dislike Khaled but I've always felt something not right with him, hence him never being a favourite of mine.

He is proactive she is reactive.

I think the problem is exactly that Ali does just say what she says and walks away, rather than allowing the other person to express their thoughts and feelings fully. This doesn’t, however, allow any room for discussion or reconciliation, and doesn’t allow the other person to feel heard.

If two people genuinely don’t like each other, it is better to accept that and walk away. In this case, Ali does give the impression that she really doesn’t like Khaled, whereas he seems to be perceiving the situation as a difference of opinion that he hopes to resolve. I don’t think he is coming from a place of dislike.

I feel something was left out of the edit there. On the live feed, most of the house supported Khaled over Ali over the dispute. Why was that? Why did he approach her that evening rather than wait until the next morning? From the edit, the only thing is he was wound up slightly by the group conversation but even that doesn't quite add up. There appears to be a lack context.

It is a two way street. Khaled's timing and phrasing was off, but so was Ali's reaction.