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Tom and amy fan 15-02-2025 07:26 AM

Advice
 
I have feelings for a good friend of mine but don't think they like me



What do I do

Ammi 15-02-2025 07:37 AM

…they obviously like you as they’re a good friend so I would say that’s of great value to them…?…so far as anything more than friendship and more romantic…?…it’s your call, really…you’re the one who knows them and knows if telling them how you feel would be a good idea or if you should give it time to see whether those feelings stay and grow or whether they’re more ‘crush-like’…

Crimson Dynamo 15-02-2025 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan (Post 11608082)
I have feelings for a good friend of mine but don't think they like me



What do I do

nothing, move on

UserSince2005 15-02-2025 10:02 AM

Suck it

thesheriff443 15-02-2025 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan (Post 11608082)
I have feelings for a good friend of mine but don't think they like me



What do I do

Are you gay or straight?

Tom and amy fan 16-02-2025 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11608155)
Are you gay or straight?

Straight

Cherie 16-02-2025 09:01 AM

It is horrible when you have romantic feelings for someone and you feel it is not reciprocated, I would bide my time, you dont want to lose her as a friend and who knows in time her feelings might change towards you, dont rush it as you could make things awkward between you just enjoy the friendship and see where it might go

thesheriff443 16-02-2025 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan (Post 11608301)
Straight

Thanks for the reply

Hopefully you have their details so you can send them a message, this avoids putting them on the spot and you from getting shot down and it gives them time to think without a knee jerk reaction

In the message tell them you find them attractive and was there a possibility that they would go on a date with you


You may get a yes a no , they may ignore it , give a gentle no sorry or be rude

What ever happens the world is full people looking for someone

Good luck

Niamh. 16-02-2025 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11608326)
It is horrible when you have romantic feelings for someone and you feel it is not reciprocated, I would bide my time, you dont want to lose her as a friend and who knows in time her feelings might change towards you, dont rush it as you could make things awkward between you just enjoy the friendship and see where it might go

Agree with Cherie

thesheriff443 16-02-2025 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11608326)
It is horrible when you have romantic feelings for someone and you feel it is not reciprocated, I would bide my time, you dont want to lose her as a friend and who knows in time her feelings might change towards you, dont rush it as you could make things awkward between you just enjoy the friendship and see where it might go

Very few friends are for life and that’s even fewer when it’s between men and women
The same way very few relationships last

Life is to short to live for a maybe

It’s a yes or no
Don’t live for someone else’s approval

Tom and amy fan 16-02-2025 11:22 AM

Thanks everyone I've decided to just be friends with her

Ammi 16-02-2025 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan (Post 11608372)
Thanks everyone I've decided to just be friends with her

…:love:…it sounds like a great friendship and that’s a thing of great value so just take time to enjoy and develop that and to cherish it…:love:…


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