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Swan 13-04-2025 07:06 PM

Question for the LGBT community regard Mickey's time in the house?
 
Right so, off to a bad start with the homophobic comments, and the silly way in which he'd "turn someone straight" etc...But since then......

He's apologised for it, knew he did wrong, admitted it was clumsy (as he should). Whats more i think what he's done to actually PROVE he's genuinely remorseful is make an effort JoJo, and Danny in the house. They have forgave him, and welcomed him with open arms.

They had that playful joke when JoJo was in "disguise", he's had decent chats with Danny, who seems to be quite fond of Mickey. And just everything else really. He seems to get on better with JoJo and Danny than he does any of the HM's.

So my question is, if he's been forgiven by the very same people his comments were aimed it, and himself made an effort to get to know and understand Danny's drag queen stuff, how to address him and so on, and has genuinely been respectful since that early incident, would you forgive him?

I can't speak for the LGBT community, but i think he's done enough to not be branded a "homophobic nasty bigot" now.

BBXX 13-04-2025 07:20 PM

I personally don’t think he’s a homophobe; but he did say homophobic stuff. I believe it’s from a place of ignorance more than anything.

If anything I think he’s probably more sexist than anything. The joke about turning a gay woman straight (through non consensual sex) was absolutely the words of a misogynist whose ego couldn’t hack a woman not wanting to sleep with him.

Jessica. 13-04-2025 07:22 PM

Some would argue I'm not part of the lgbt community but I'll answer anyway - No, he's a very troubled man who is very unpredictable and I'm sure he'd call someone a slur in a flash again if they said the wrong thing to him. There are lots of stories about him doing unsavoury things throughout his life and he ended up getting ejected from the house so it's hard to see him as genuine.

Swan 13-04-2025 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 11627549)
Some would argue I'm not part of the lgbt community but I'll answer anyway - No, he's a very troubled man who is very unpredictable and I'm sure he'd call someone a slur in a flash again if they said the wrong thing to him. There are lots of stories about him doing unsavoury things throughout his life and he ended up getting ejected from the house so it's hard to see him as genuine.

But he wasn't ejected for anything homophobic, his temper has let him down. But from what we all know so far, his outburst wasn't homophobic related.

He might have had his troubles, but i feel after being around JoJo and Danny in the house, he seems to have a better understanding of what is right, and wrong to say concerning the LGBT community.

I dunno, so many calling him this massive evil homophobe X now, all things considered, is a bit harsh.

Jessica. 13-04-2025 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11627554)
But he wasn't ejected for anything homophobic, his temper has let him down. But from what we all know so far, his outburst wasn't homophobic related.

He might have had his troubles, but i feel after being around JoJo and Danny in the house, he seems to have a better understanding of what is right, and wrong to say concerning the LGBT community.

I dunno, so many calling him this massive evil homophobe X now, all things considered, is a bit harsh.

I'm saying I think he still is homophobic but if he isn't misogyny and intimidation are no better.

arista 13-04-2025 07:32 PM

But he got on with Danny
Fine.

Swan 13-04-2025 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 11627557)
I'm saying I think he still is homophobic but if he isn't misogyny and intimidation are no better.

Do you not think JoJo's and Danny's warmth towards him is very telling though? I mean they live in there with him, we get to see 40 mins a day, theyre in there with him 24/7

Jessica. 13-04-2025 07:36 PM

Have you all not heard the trope of how someone can't be racist because they have a black friend? Just because Mickey got on with two people from the community for a couple of days doesn't change anything at all.

Swan 13-04-2025 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 11627568)
Have you all not heard the trope of how someone can't be racist because they have a black friend? Just because Mickey got on with two people from the community for a couple of days doesn't change anything at all.

No no, of course that's a thing. Im just saying, if JoJo and Danny felt he was genuinely homophobic they wouldn't be so warm towards him in the house. Especially Danny, he seems to really like Mickey. And Danny doesn't suffer fools, that's obvious.

Benjamin 13-04-2025 07:41 PM

I personally don’t think he’s homophobic, but he did keep repeating offensive (and homophobic) things.
Even when people tried to stop him. He was trying to be funny but in very bad taste.

JoJo had the right to be offended as it was offensive, but seems to have forgiven him, or at least moved on.

I don’t know much about him outside of this. He sounds like he’s lived a life where he hasn’t had to care or think too much about what he says (especially as he seems to not be very social) and I think he pushes boundaries without thinking of the consequences.Meaning the BB house probably isn’t the ideal place to be.

Crimson Dynamo 13-04-2025 07:44 PM

Mickey was a great ally and will be sorely missed

Benjamin 13-04-2025 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo (Post 11627571)
Mickey was a great ally and will be sorely missed

I wouldn’t call him an ally.

thesheriff443 13-04-2025 07:46 PM

A gay person’s opinion means no more than a straight person’s opinion and vice versa
Not all gay people are nice people same for straight people
It’s easy to judge but a lot harder to be judged

Benjamin 13-04-2025 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11627573)
A gay person’s opinion means no more than a straight person’s opinion and vice versa
Not all gay people are nice people same for straight people
It’s easy to judge but a lot harder to be judged

The question was for us in the community and our views. Nobody is trying to “outdo” those not in the community with our opinion.

Liam- 13-04-2025 07:56 PM

Yeah I don’t think he’s necessarily homophobic, he just seems to be very ignorant and careless of anybody else around him, I think the casualness of his aggression is the main problem, what with the whole ‘corrective rape’ vibe he had going on with Jojo and now his aggression and violent threats towards Chris, an incredibly flawed human being with bad tendencies but he doesn’t seem like a generally awful person

MTVN 13-04-2025 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11627570)
I personally don’t think he’s homophobic, but he did keep repeating offensive (and homophobic) things.
Even when people tried to stop him. He was trying to be funny but in very bad taste.

JoJo had the right to be offended as it was offensive, but seems to have forgiven him, or at least moved on.

I don’t know much about him outside of this. He sounds like he’s lived a life where he hasn’t had to care or think too much about what he says (especially as he seems to not be very social) and I think he pushes boundaries without thinking of the consequences.Meaning the BB house probably isn’t the ideal place to be.

I think that's fair and he's made a few comments about having a short fuse which he's worked on etc which suggests that even now we're seeing quite a tame version of Mickey

I think he has a lot of demons. He obviously felt that the best way to tackle those recently was to isolate himself but that comes with it's own issues, he's pretty out of touch with what's acceptable and what isn't

thesheriff443 13-04-2025 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11627581)
The question was for us in the community and our views. Nobody is trying to “outdo” those not in the community with our opinion.

True but at the end of the day all views are worth the same nothing

Mickeys words and actions got him removed
No one really cares, next week no one will be talking about good old Mickey

Swan 13-04-2025 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 11627585)
Yeah I don’t think he’s necessarily homophobic, he just seems to be very ignorant and careless of anybody else around him, I think the casualness of his aggression is the main problem, what with the whole ‘corrective rape’ vibe he had going on with Jojo and now his aggression and violent threats towards Chris, an incredibly flawed human being with bad tendencies but he doesn’t seem like a generally awful person

Do you think that JoJo's forgiveness, and his friendship with JoJo and Danny, as gay people, don't see Mickey as a threat?

I mean look at the clip, Danny and JoJo are trying to calm and help him. They seem quite fond of the guy.

Ammi 13-04-2025 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BBXX (Post 11627547)
I personally don’t think he’s a homophobe; but he did say homophobic stuff. I believe it’s from a place of ignorance more than anything.

If anything I think he’s probably more sexist than anything. The joke about turning a gay woman straight (through non consensual sex) was absolutely the words of a misogynist whose ego couldn’t hack a woman not wanting to sleep with him.


…yeah, I touched on that with you briefly in another thread…obviously his offensive and upsetting comments aimed at JoJo were homophobic …?…I think what got lost in it all quite a bit for me but what was very significant is that he specifically targeted a woman in a way that he hasn’t targeted any man in there …so I think he has a real struggle in relating to women possibly…unless it’s in a physical/sexual type way…hmmmm, I don’t think that he comes from a place of ignorance, though….i really to get the vibe that it’s more a place of misogyny….

…edited also to say that Mickey apparently did spend some time with Gareth Thomas/rugby player…he flew to Wales to talk to him about playing him in a movie/series, I’m not sure which…because he heard his story about coming out as gay in the rugby world…?…and he felt huge admiration for him and wanted to meet him and wanted to portray Gareth…

…I don’t think that he has the part, though…:laugh:…

Barry. 13-04-2025 08:30 PM

It’s a hard one. He was born in a time LGBT was kind of looked down on. I think he’s not Homophobic but he’s a creep to women

Swan 13-04-2025 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Barry. (Post 11627604)
It’s a hard one. He was born in a time LGBT was kind of looked down on. I think he’s not Homophobic but he’s a creep to women

He is, but just like 99% of men from his Hollywood era. Not excusing him, but still.

Glenn. 13-04-2025 09:37 PM

He was homophobic and then got himself thrown out for being aggressive and threatening. He’s not someone I’d give any time to.

Zizu 13-04-2025 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11627768)
He was homophobic and then got himself thrown out for being aggressive and threatening. He’s not someone I’d give any time to.


He will be absolutely devastated

Jordan. 13-04-2025 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11627768)
He was homophobic and then got himself thrown out for being aggressive and threatening. He’s not someone I’d give any time to.

There's a reason he's spent the last 6 years of his life alone and probably will the rest of it.

Swan 13-04-2025 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11627768)
He was homophobic and then got himself thrown out for being aggressive and threatening. He’s not someone I’d give any time to.

Glenn, you call women sweetheart and babe all the time, when they literally ask you not to?!


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