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Swan 26-05-2025 07:52 PM

Apology
 
For my stupidly and insanity the other night. I'd been up for like 40 hours, and drinking for 30 of them. I went to the dog racing in Hove Thurs night (will never go again), see a dog snap his spine, and that was the last straw for me, mentally. Got A LOT on my mind atm as it is, those close to me know about it. So yeah, some excuses for my behaviour, but not many. But at the end of the day, i am deeply sorry for my behaviour that day.

I really like this place. I have problems, and im not ashamed to admit them now.

Sooooo many members were concerned about me during, and after all that. What that shows is this place is full of fantastic, lovely caring people.

In one of my darkest nights and days, you ALL came to me caring, not judging. And trying to help me.

That meant so much to me, and i just wanna thank you all, you know who you are :love:

Ammi 26-05-2025 07:54 PM

…:love:..:hug:..

Crimson Dynamo 26-05-2025 07:58 PM

Don't blame dog racing for your coke and booze binge

And plenty people judged you

Enough birthday card pish mate and get your act together

Swan 26-05-2025 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo (Post 11651623)
Don't blame dog racing for your coke and booze binge

And plenty people judged you

Enough birthday card pish mate and get your act together

Im not blaming dog racing, watching a dog's spine snap live just sent me over the edge that. I don't do coke either, have done, but find it over rated tbh.

But yeah fair enough.

This is a forum though, so i guess as a bigger picture, every single one of us get judged daily.

Swan 26-05-2025 08:04 PM

Edit - Dog racing is barbaric, never again.

thesheriff443 26-05-2025 08:05 PM

Swan the only one that you really hurt is yourself
I know life is hard but you must try and get yourself in a better place mentally

Crimson Dynamo 26-05-2025 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11651626)
Edit - Dog racing is barbaric, never again.

There is no point racing them, they are too fast
You will never win

Cherie 26-05-2025 08:08 PM

Good win for Chelsea has pepped you up though I hope Swan :dance:

Swan 26-05-2025 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11651627)
Swan the only one that you really hurt is yourself
I know life is hard but you must try and get yourself in a better place mentally

Yeah i see that now, think i upset Kate though.

Swan 26-05-2025 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11651631)
Good win for Chelsea has pepped you up though I hope Swan :dance:

:dance:

Swan 26-05-2025 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo (Post 11651628)
There is no point racing them, they are too fast
You will never win

If you saw what i saw that night, you might feel different.

thesheriff443 26-05-2025 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11651632)
Yeah i see that now, think i upset Kate though.

You are sorry for what you said so that’s all you can do

Kate! 26-05-2025 08:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11651632)
Yeah i see that now, think i upset Kate though.

No love. Xx it was just hard talking with you in your frame of mind. I wasn't turning on you. I just thought it best to leave you be. I think a couple of posts here are a bit harsh towards you. We all are capable of going off the rails given enough reason. People should allow for this. Xx

Swan 26-05-2025 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11651641)
No love. Xx it was just hard talking with you in your frame of mind. I wasn't turning on you. I just thought it best to leave you be. I think a couple of posts here are a bit harsh towards you. We all are capable of going off the rails given enough reason. People should allow for this. Xx

This is why i will always defend you. Thank you xx

Vanessa 26-05-2025 09:52 PM

:hug:
Quote:

Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11651617)
For my stupidly and insanity the other night. I'd been up for like 40 hours, and drinking for 30 of them. I went to the dog racing in Hove Thurs night (will never go again), see a dog snap his spine, and that was the last straw for me, mentally. Got A LOT on my mind atm as it is, those close to me know about it. So yeah, some excuses for my behaviour, but not many. But at the end of the day, i am deeply sorry for my behaviour that day.

I really like this place. I have problems, and im not ashamed to admit them now.

Sooooo many members were concerned about me during, and after all that. What that shows is this place is full of fantastic, lovely caring people.

In one of my darkest nights and days, you ALL came to me caring, not judging. And trying to help me.

That meant so much to me, and i just wanna thank you all, you know who you are :love:


Redway 26-05-2025 09:55 PM

Does this apply to all those times where you’ve randomly snapped my head off?

Mystic Mock 26-05-2025 09:59 PM

From the posts that I saw I have seen far worse meltdowns, including from myself.

So speaking for myself, I am fine with you Swan.

Barry. 26-05-2025 10:15 PM

Hopefully you will get the help you need with the drinking.

Cherie 26-05-2025 10:35 PM

Loving Barrys nice era :dance:

James 26-05-2025 11:21 PM

Deleted some posts. That Discord is nothing to do with this site, and doesn't need to be dealt with on this forum.


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