I like a straight guy. Eeek!
 

Heyas! Well the thing is I really like this guy. He's like a really good friend of mine, and I'm like in love with him, and I know it's not a crush, it's like the real thing, but he's straight which is big obstacle. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for me on what to do and what NOT to do. lol.

Thanx.

You're all probably experiencing a lot of different feelings at the moment. An option would be to subtly hint at your current feelings to him - one method's talking about a dream where you two might be together, and see how he reacts. I'm assuming he's aware you're into guys, in which case it shouldn't be much of a shock to him.

Well yea, he's aware of my sexuality...i think. If he isn't, then he is very VERY stupid. lol. Well I have sort of dropped hints, but I dunno if he's getting them.

I dont think theres anything youi can really do. If hes straight then nothings gonna change thaaat.

Do what I do. Spike his drink and take advantage of him.

Yeah, I know, but sometimes and this may be me just hoping, but I get the impression that he likes guys too. Because he is very friendly to me, much friendlier than any of my other straight friends.

Lol. I think I will have to give that a miss. Maybe next time. lol.

LMFAO Stu. Just tell him, if hes a good friend he shouldnt really care and that way youll find out if he likes you (I know thats a bit easier said than done)

Erm, well, I don't want it to ruin our friendship if he doesn't, cuz it's happened before with girls, so I can't imagine what it would be like with him.

Get him drunk!

If that fails, then there's nothing much else you can do. Don't tell him your feelings for him.

That's what my friends keep telling me - not to tell him, but sometimes it gets too much, and I'm like "ahhhh. i love you" lol. Well I whisper it so he doesnt hear. lol.

Ditto. Thats a great way to maul on to some of your straight friends. Men always kiss each other when drunk. Particulary on new years.

Listen to AuntieLauren, (Lauren give this advice tomoz) Just get him drunk

Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..

Exactly, my best friend is gay and it's a wonder how many times this has worked for him :laugh: You're all just closets! *dramatic spin*

You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get pissed in their! Bring him along!

Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.

I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.

As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.

And lets be fair, Gerard Way brings the gay out in all of us.

Hmmm? I spose. But it would be explaining to my parents. I've never been drunk before, so I don't know what I'm like. I would probably come home singing and hugging everyone then I would sit down and fall asleep. lol.

But your going to a concert right? Drink before hand and youll be sober by the time you get out of their!!!

Oh yes he does. lol.
And to just clarify, Im not gay. lol.

That's a good idea. =) But they might not let me in drunk. lol.

Haha, being drunk doesn't mean you're rowdy and loud and totally out of control. You can act sober to get inside.

Id reccomend alcopops. Cheap , easy and fun. Your not gonna be falling at the doors.

And your NOT gay you say?! I presumed you were! Thats really odd! Cool I suppose :thumbs:.