HELP ME (teenage problem)
 

hey everyone

double here im very scarreeeddd about tomorow

my friend is having a party and where going to hapstend heath then going so sleep round and stuff

but im worried about stuff and i need your help and stuff

1st:
people are going to get drunk and stuff i think :puzzled: and i puzzled

2ed:
if i do get drunk or hiper and just snog someone else i have a boyfriend and all AND IM SCARD

i dont want to get drunk

experimenting and stuff please help me
PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE

im scared

DT

Aww Just dont get drunk lol, or ask one of your more responsible friends to keep an eye on youu

Just have fun. Dont worry about it!

should you really be getting drunk at 14?

people i no

NO I SOULDENT GET DRUNK

but my mates will and im scared ITS LIKE SKINS WITH NO DRUGS :(

Just dont get drunk, just say you dont want to its not hard

Good thing, Sunshine30 is an expert of these situations. :wink:

So first of all, I'm going to resolve your first point "people are going to get drunk and stuff i think :puzzled: and i puzzled"

Remy's answer: Actually it's a party so normally people are going to be drunk but no worries at all, you don't want to drink you don't. You can drink one glass or two but not more if you don't feel too. If you don't feel comfortable with these people then go away. Don't be shocked by what you will see.

Secondly "if i do get drunk or hiper and just snog someone else i have a boyfriend and all AND Im SCARD"

Remy's answer: The probability of having a **** when you are drunk are very low, it doesn't happen everytime you are. You have to be very drunk if you snog someone and more. But if it happens, no worries, you are drunk, we were in an other world, you can be forgiven, I know what I'm talking about.

Conclusion: Apparently you haven't the habit to go to a party so let's relaw, find some friend you get along with, don't drunk if you don't want to and everything will be alright. You will have fun of course !

Of course you can, there is no age for that...well there is the legal age :rolleyes:

Remy - Not everyone sees it like that "you were drunk tis ok you can be forgiven", Im sure DTs boyfriend wouldnt see it like that

Billy you havent met my mates there hard to say no to

i will try :conf2:

You are young, but one of the most important things you’ll learn is that if you’re happy in a relationship you shouldn’t allow yourself to cheat in that relationship. Drinking now and again is fine; I started at 13 – at parties that is – so just avoid getting yourself into such a state where you ‘sleep around’! At 14 that’s a vulnerable position to put yourself in…You do learn from mistakes but when you’re young and starting out it helps to be aware.

But at the end of the day you’re going to have fun – so hopefully all this will just be at the back of your mind while you enjoy the party!

No but you have an excuse actually. It does depend how much you are drunk and you can control yourself. Being drunk is something hard because you want to do things you don't normally (kissing you bestfriend :rolleyes:) or revealing some secrets or things.

Double, if you say no to your friend they will understand, just have fun, you can have fun without being drunk. :thumbs:

You shouldnt be pressured into peer pressure.

I never knew you were gay DoubleTrouble. :thumbs:

Just try not not to get drunk, if you do don't worry we all make mistakes in life.

no gay callum

Bi mate :wink:

My mates always drink around me
Just be strong and say no.
I'm only fifteen myself, and gay xD but that's beside the point.

As long as you show you that you don't want to drink, and you're gonna stick to it, then they should leave you alone.
If they don't, they're not worth it.

i want to...

but im confused

Same for me I didn't know you are Double.

Well as Callum said, we are all stronger by learning from our mistakes so now I know to not shave my friend's dog, not burning the couch, not snoging my ex-girlfriend's bestfriend, do not kiss my own bestfriend and do not say that my ennemy's mother is a witch.

Have fun Double ! :wink::thumbs:

IM BI looooooool

i like girls and boys :banana:

my freinds call me greedy :)

Just Get Drunk, Partyy & Have Fun! Woo.
:whistle:

Be yourself mate, dont do anything you dont want to

Actually it's my life philosophy but Double doesn't want to so don't worry mate it will be alrite ! :thumbs:

Pmsl Remy at 'My enemy's mother is a witch' :laugh2:

Yes actually it was my rival for the "Student of the Year" elections and as I'm a competitive boy, I went in front of his house at 3am shouting "Mrs ........ is a ********* witch, get up big witch" well they wanted to call the police but they didn't. I was so drunk lol :hugesmile:

You will be Fine!