My Best Friend....
 

Hey DT here AGAIN lol

needing edvice again

hey this is the story of today....

Today walked into school normal monday everyone tired as usual, spoke to my best friend ******* (not to be named), Anyway he said he needed a talk with me, he knows im bi,anyway he was all upset in R.E and was crying i have NEVER EVER seen him cry!! i was like are you ok mate he dident answer me anyway i got up to hand out a sheet when i got back i got out a pen and there was a little yellow piece of paper saing we need a talk ******* i was like ok, at school my best friend is VERY POPULAR and is known as a gangster anyway.... he said stupid stuff like "thats so gay" and stuff but he doesent relise it he hangs round with 2 groups of people the gangsters and the others LOL anyway 1 day hes with the gangster the other with us its really strange.. today he was upset for some reason!!!

at lunch i went off to have a chat with him HE SAID "HE WAS BI" i was like that makes NO SENCE you were like acting all straght and stuff was i was VERY PUZZLED he went on saying how he finds it hard because hes a muslim and stuff

he trusts me and he has only told me its hard tho because i have a HUGEEE CRUSH ON HIM :C i thought he was straght at stuff im still puzzled he dident want to tell me who he liked.

he went on
saying stuff like i dident mean oh thats so gay and stuff im very sorry than gave me a hug WHICH HE HAS NEVER DONE BEFORE :lovedup:

what do i do:puzzled:

Tell him the truth, but tell him slowly, dont jump out with it, or he might be a bit confused how you suddenly say you have a crush on him.

Wow like one big soap.

... thanks sam :)

oh btw

good luck with tonight

DT my advise is get to talk with him and you together and start asking him some serious questions about what he really wants then try and sort something out from there if i were you mate :kiss:

My thoughts exactly

Tell him the truth, and have a word with him and see what both of you want and see where you both go from there.

i no help

thanks everyone :) :shrug:

anytime DT thats what friends are for mate but like sam said talk yeah cool on you sam :flowers::flowers:

This happened to me.. kinda.

A straight, close friend thought he was bi and asked me out knowing I was.
He dumped me two hours earlier after realising what he was doing.

We're still close, but we've distanced since then and I HATE it.

My only advice is to be extremely careful.

Give him a few months first to let his emotions settle down and then speak with him about it. Speak to him about it over MSN or at your house, I think if you spoke to him about it at school he might feel a bit nervous due to the amount of people around you. :thumbs:

i thought i was your best friend :sad:
joking
anyway i've already talked to you about it lol
i can't beleive what D***Y did!

Get him alone and be honest with him, tell him you've got feelings for him and see how he takes it. He will be surprised, but if he's a true friend then I'm sure he'll be understanding and it shouldn't affect your friendship with him.

Don’t act awkward around him, because that will only make things worse. It obviously must have taken a lot of guts for him to tell you how he felt. At a young age though, especially in your teen years, it’s common to get confused about your feelings regarding relationships etc. Just continue your friendship as normal; now that he’s justified the ‘you’re so gay’ comments, that’s all the better.

When the time feels right, you can tell him your past feelings and how you feel about him. It was him that took the big first step for you through this particular incident, so it shouldn’t be as difficult when the time comes. Even if things don’t work out, since you’ve both been open and honest with each other your friendship should continue going strong.