Vanity
 

are too many people vain these days ? what are your views on it ?

I dunno becuase when does just making your self look nice and feel better about yourself turn into vanity?

I really dislike vein people lol.
My view is that vanity leads to a persons demise.

I think vanity is combined with arrogance; confidence is something different.

If I look in reflective surfaces whenever I pass by them, friends call me vain, but I personally think that's far from true. Checking to make sure you look OK is different from admiring your own beauty - if anything, it means you're more insecure than vain.

I rarely wear lots of make-up (can't figure it all out for a start), but wearing it doesn't make you vain at all, IMO. It's all about the attitude.

I dotn really understand the deifnition of vain becuase I do wear make up,even on days when im not leaving the house,i do fix my hair and keep myslef tanned,wearing the nicest clothes i can affored etc.I have got alot of beauty products and I am quite image conscious i suppose.I do spend a good bit of time getting ready for nights out but I wouldnt say Im vein,i dont think life depends on looks and im not obsessed,i dont have bags of confidence either so therefore i wouldnt consider myself to be vain but maybe others would disagree idk

If you're vain in a confident way I don't think that's something that should be looked down upon. As Ash said, if you're vain because you admire yourself, it's different. I'm vain in a confident way, it's not a sin. :p (Lmao, OK, that came out wrong.)

I do agree with you, I'm confident, I like the way I am and I'm attracted by money but it's not a crime after all. Then I'm vain in a confident way too.

I am Not Vain, but i can be sometimes :whistle:

I think I am very vain, as I wont even go out of the house with out me make-up on and me eyeliner on lol, and if one bit of hair is out of place I wont go out in til it's sorted, so yeah I am very vain :bigsmile:

I'm not vain in the 'i think i'm hot oh baby' sense.

but I'm vain in the.. 'i like to look nice' sense?

like.
i won't leave the house unless my hair looks decent, my clothes look okay, i've got eyeliner on etc?

Yeah, I'm like that, also like you said I ent vain as in I love myself and think I'm god's gift kind of thing lol

i think its good to be a bit vain sometimes i dont understand why some people dont make an effort with their appearance.

Ok you may all attack me for saying that now:joker:

Same cept the eyeliner bit lol

lol, nopes, I agree.

to me when you see say an overweight woman with messy hair,no make up and plain,oldish clothes even if they are some successful buisness woman with a middle class background then to me i would still look at them and think-slob.

ammm welll im not sure wheather im vain or not
im always looking in mirrors checking weather i look god or not and im always trying to make my hair look good and if it does it makes me feel better about myself but i dont think that im attractive or anything like that.

Haha today i had another damn retainer fitted after my fixed. Haha and he gave me a mirror to hold and my hair looked a bit off so like sorted it out haha! oops

lol.My dad looks at his reflection in shop windows and he is 42!lolI dotn really do stuff like that,once im ready im ready,i dont bother re checking lol.I remember when i got my retainer sam it was a nightmare,i stopped wearing it after a few weeks lol,i couldnt talk properly:laugh: