ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums

ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/index.php)
-   BB9 (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=99)
-   -   Alexandra: alexandra BULLY or just OUTSPOKEN????? (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=58162)

kirkpatrick1990 10-06-2008 01:03 PM

alexandra BULLY or just OUTSPOKEN?????
 
i cannot stand looking or hearing this girls voice i think shes a bully will the rest of you tell me hwat she thinks

Lianatoot 10-06-2008 01:04 PM

I think shes patronizing, condecending and a bully!

Lauren 10-06-2008 01:04 PM

Ugh, arguing with someone is not synonymous with bullying them.

LargeAndInCharge 10-06-2008 01:05 PM

BOTH!!!!!

rayheartbliss 10-06-2008 01:05 PM

yes shes defenatly a bully!

i hav a feeling that she will beat sezer's record of 91%

i think she will hav 97% ^0^

Lianatoot 10-06-2008 01:05 PM

Quote:

Ugh, arguing with someone is not synonymous with bullying them.

....No but making them feel stupid and small is.

kirkpatrick1990 10-06-2008 01:06 PM

there is another post where u can all vot eon a poll please do so . thnx

Wellsita 10-06-2008 01:07 PM

Simply STUPID!

Captain.Remy 10-06-2008 01:07 PM

Bully:

A person who is habitually cruel or overbearing, especially to smaller or weaker people.

Outspoken:

Frank and unreserved in speech.

Alexandra is not a bully, she just says what she thinks, even if it's harsh and nasty sometimes.
Her argument against Michael was justified since he acted like a moron and put him on his place.

GiRTh 10-06-2008 01:09 PM

Outspoken given Remys definitions.

I think people are too quick to use the word bully to refer to someone who speaks their mind and isn't afraid to go against othjers.

Mali 10-06-2008 01:23 PM

Well I wouldn't want to be her friend or meet her in the street, thats for sure!!!

I think the actual word doesn't matter... if you talk over someone (like she did when Mikey attempted to explain his side of the story) you suck!

If someone swears and curses like she does, I think they have a few anger issues.

Dan_ 10-06-2008 01:54 PM

I think she's just outspoken, it's not like she only targets certain people over nothing.If someone does something that annoys her then she lets them know about it.For sure she can get very aggresive but I wouldn't say it's bullying yet.

rhombus92 10-06-2008 02:27 PM

the way she belittles people and uses their time of weakness to gang up on them is bullying. she is a rotten bitch, and she should be evicted fast. she is even worse than charley because she shows no remorse and will pick on anyone for even the most petty reason

MrGaryy 10-06-2008 02:45 PM

Just outspoken. The thing with Mikey, imo, she was in the right. Mario and Dennis both told him that it was a thong and even if he didn't know when they were getting angry with him he just kept smiling, taking the piss of them!

Jay 10-06-2008 02:56 PM

Bully is used far to easily these days, she's just being honest i guess but on the other hand it's becoming annoying.

manxman 10-06-2008 03:01 PM

Does anyone here remember being pissed when another pissed fool trys to pick a fight, yeh remember ! you grin in embarrassment and in hoping it'll go away, well try it blind folded next time and see how nervous you get !

Spike 10-06-2008 03:03 PM

She is not a bully
She is just outspoken, people are accused of bullying for anything these days.

JadeLauren_x 10-06-2008 03:24 PM

i think shes way too outspoken but a bit of a bully aswel

SexualHeroics 10-06-2008 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Bully:

A person who is habitually cruel or overbearing, especially to smaller or weaker people.
Sounds like a tame way to describe Alex. Course she's a bully. She's total scum.

Kore 10-06-2008 03:42 PM

I think shes bitchy and argumentative.

her voice goes through me. this is obviously an act to stay in.

Sunflower 10-06-2008 03:52 PM

There is outspoken and there is bullying. She obviously has issues. Anger, ego, self confidence, attitude and intellect. Bullies like to shout and intimidate to cover up their own insecurities. Shouting people down, intimidation, not letting people get a word in is not only ignorant and selfish but is also a form of control.

Steph does the same thing but very subtly. It sticks out like a sore thumb that she cares only about herself and will tred on anyone's corns to gain attention and power. Watch her. Actually, hopefully she will go on Friday for her absolutely hopeless attempt at the first task she was given. The manipulator.

She wanted the others up for nominations because deep within she believes she won't be the one going. She really doesn't like Mario and wants him gone, and for what? It was Big Brother that chose the two of them not Mario. What on earth did he do wrong?At least he tried to win the task ansd so did his partner. It can't have been easy for the two of them but they gave it their all unlike Steph. Moan moan moan. CALM DOWN!

SexualHeroics 10-06-2008 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sunflower
There is outspoken and there is bullying. She obviously has issues. Anger, ego, self confidence, attitude and intellect. Bullies like to shout and intimidate to cover up their own insecurities. Shouting people down, intimidation, not letting people get a word in is not only ignorant and selfish but is also a form of control.

Steph does the same thing but very subtly. It sticks out like a sore thumb that she cares only about herself and will tred on anyone's corns to gain attention and power. Watch her. Actually, hopefully she will go on Friday for her absolutely hopeless attempt at the first task she was given. The manipulator.

She wanted the others up for nominations because deep within she believes she won't be the one going. She really doesn't like Mario and wants him gone, and for what? It was Big Brother that chose the two of them not Mario. What on earth did he do wrong?At least he tried to win the task ansd so did his partner. It can't have been easy for the two of them but they gave it their all unlike Steph. Moan moan moan. CALM DOWN!
What a good post.

x_mel_x 10-06-2008 04:06 PM

Self obsessed, rude, disrespectful, brash, little consideration for people with disabilties, egotistical and bitchy. Everything I hate in a person and she lives 10 minutes away from me-great!

crazyfish72 10-06-2008 04:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by kirkpatrick1990
i cannot stand looking or hearing this girls voice i think shes a bully will the rest of you tell me hwat she thinks
i guess its a good thing you can barely hear her then

~like the ghost of a whisper~

HRH 10-06-2008 04:53 PM

I live across the road from this woman (hopefully not for long) and beleive me, she is not prejudice in who she screams and shouts at. Some days you'll see her in the shop and she won't say a word and other times (several occasions) I have watched her scream and threaten people for little or no reason. She is quick to talk about respect but she has none!
Oh I want to write more but have to catch my train! Back later!


All times are GMT. The time now is 12:03 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.