Friend Trouble - Can Anyone Help?
 

Hey.

An online drama has occured with one of my good online friends. Weve had arguments, and nightmares and stessful things and yesterday weve made up and tried to forget all the things thats happened in the past.

But i found out today that he told one of my other online friends that hes set out a mission to annoy me and wind me up, by commenting irritating thingson my bebo to wind me up. However he has failed to wind me up at this point as im just letting it slide by.

But when i confront him about what he has done, he blocks me and does not answer my calls. So he cannot face up to the consequences he has done. Now this is a big issue for me, because yesterday he moaned at me for not facing up to the consequences, and in the end i did, and we had a chat.

It has got me so fustrated, and i cannot believe that ive let an online argument get me sooo fustrated because its so unlike me.

Has anyone got any tips or suggestions?

Thanks
Conzors xx

He seems quite immature, why dont you try not speaking to him for a while and see if things cool off...why would he want to annoy you on purpose? Is he jealous of you or something??

Doesn't sound like a worthy 'friend' to have if you ask me.

*Puts Hand Up* x

Im the person who told him about trying to annoy him =( x

It just kinda came out.. it was kinda my fault :( x

It wasnt your fault Nicky, he had a right to know. Well done for having the guts to tell him :thumbs:

Maybe it would be a good idea if people knew the other side of the story before they came to conclusions :rolleyes:

Thanks Ash =) x

I soo wish i hadnt got involved in the first place ..

But there both really good friends too me - it just happend.. i didnt plan it x

Im keeping well out of this now x

Im Sorry Matt.

But i dont think they need to know the other half, because that was all sotred out yesterday.

Its obvious who it is... oo.

I'm lost....is it Chewy?

Noo. Guessing game :D

The "friend" is a member here. To be honest, I'd leave it.

Yur.

Im going to leave it now.

Im over it tbh.

If he dont wonna be friends, fine. Ill leave it

Thanks for replying anyways

xx

No I aint involved tooperfect

Really?! I couldn't even guess as to who it is. Would love to know . . . . .

:joker:

I can guess know who. So much for changes :sad:
I said actions speak louder than words.

Oh well, ignore it, it will blow over soon and you will be friends again!

If you wanna know, ask Conor. Cause if he wishes to tell then he will. Aint my drama to tell.

Same. I've taken a few guesses from looking at the members online, that's if they are online lol. :tongue:

But I'd just say if your friend is going to act like that then I think you should consider whether actually he is a friend worth having. :)

Firstly, I don't like the fact you've brought a personal argument on to the forum, because it achieves nothing but negativity and solves no problem at all. You posted this knowing that I was a member of the forum.

The fact that "they don't need to know the other half" is convenient for you, because it severely effected the aftermath and the problem you have described above. And the above post you made, shows nothing that you may have done wrong. Slightly biased.

Arguments can be solved other ways, and I think you've posted this just for impact. So please just leave this thread and find another way to sort this out. Leave personal arguments we may have had as private.

To be fair, Sam is right. There was no need to bring this argument to TiBB, it could have easily been sorted away from the board. Ok, maybe if Sam wasn't a member on here then it would have been alright to post a personal problem and ask for help to sort it out.
As you've told me, it was sorted out last night, so why did it need to be brought up today in this thread?

I think whatever, whoever it is on this forum you shouldn't if posted this, its bound to cause a argument and personal stuff that doesn't involve TiBB shouldn't be posted on here unless its involving a friends that not registered on the forum, what ever happens over msn/phone to do with a member should stay outside the forum.

I agree - please keep issues such as these off the forum.

Thread locked.