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Tom 06-06-2009 02:02 PM

Is 66 too old to have a baby?
 
Question on high brow topical discussion show 8 Out of 10 Cats :joker:

Some 66 year old had a baby ... so just thought do you think its right or wrong?

MrGaryy 06-06-2009 02:04 PM

yes, she's likely to be dead before the child is even 20, plus think of the ridicule amongst his peers.

*mazedsalv** 06-06-2009 02:06 PM

I saw this on 8 out of 10 cats lol
It was 91% Yes, 9% No

And i agree, the child will be about 10 when the parents die.

Annie 06-06-2009 02:06 PM

The female body isn't designed to have children at that age. That must be for a reason, no?
And at 66, you will be 70 by the time its a toddler and running around etc. Can you seriously see a 70 running round after a child? Bending down low etc. If she bent down to pick up a toy, she might never get back up.
The child would end up looking after his/her mum by the time they are about 10. Its not fair on the child. Yes she might want a child and think that it will work but its just making a child grow up well before they need to.

\PJ/ 06-06-2009 02:09 PM

61 i mean please can you imagine the kids in the playground
KID: "oh look here is your nan"
CHILD: "no thats my mum"
:shocked:

Marc 06-06-2009 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PJ
61 i mean please can you imagine the kids in the playground
KID: "oh look here is your nan"
CHILD: "no thats my mum"
:shocked:
Probably think it was some sort of old paedophile...
I said 'its wrong' but having said that I don't think it is up to us to say whether or not it is wrong or not :thumbs:

Tom 06-06-2009 02:11 PM

I think its wrong purely because my nana died when she was 66 and a year before she was in fine health so anything can happen so thats just a personal view to me. But most people die between 70 and 80 so she might not even see the baby make it to be a teenager .........

If the 66 year old has adult children though then I suppose it softens the blow a bit ... but should people even be having sex at that age anyway? :joker:

Annie 06-06-2009 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tom
but should people even be having sex at that age anyway? :joker:
Exactly. Imagine it.

Ooooo baby!
Yes!
Yes!
There!!!
YES!!!!

*heart attack and dead*

Z 06-06-2009 04:52 PM

Nobody knows when they're going to die; but the older you get, the likelier it gets that you're gonna pop your clogs any time soon. I think 66 is far too old to be having a child; the child would need a parent until they are at least 16; therefore this 66 year old has to live until they are 82? It's not likely that they're going to make it to that age.

Princess 06-06-2009 04:55 PM

It is completely selfish to have a baby at 66. The body isn't made for it for a reason. A baby is a dependent being and it's hard enough when you're young looking after the baby but 66? It's just irreponsible.

Ninastar 06-06-2009 05:35 PM

I know this will maybe sounds a bit mean but i think the oldest age to have a child is 40. Any older, I think its a bit stupid.

Brad* 06-06-2009 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ninastar
I know this will maybe sounds a bit mean but i think the oldest age to have a child is 40. Any older, I think its a bit stupid.
Spot on Caitlin.:thumbs:

Ninastar 06-06-2009 05:42 PM

Ikr.

\PJ/ 06-06-2009 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ninastar
I know this will maybe sounds a bit mean but i think the oldest age to have a child is 40. Any older, I think its a bit stupid.
And very selfish.

Brad* 06-06-2009 05:56 PM

Apparently, if you are around 40 or older when you have a baby, it is more likely to be born with a defect or mental disability.

Ninastar 06-06-2009 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PJ
Quote:

Originally posted by Ninastar
I know this will maybe sounds a bit mean but i think the oldest age to have a child is 40. Any older, I think its a bit stupid.
And very selfish.
Yeh. I could never do it.

Ninastar 06-06-2009 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brad.
Apparently, if you are around 40 or older when you have a baby, it is more likely to be born with a defect or mental disability.
Yeh. I think it up to 5 times more likley.

Miss-red 07-06-2009 01:05 AM

its far to old and very selfish, the child depends on its mother and there's a very good chance she won't be around to watch the child grow up. its ridiculous even contemplating having a baby at that age in my opinion xx

Iceman 07-06-2009 01:07 AM

I mean grandparents in this day and age are 40 I thinkit's crazy to be having a baby at 66.

bananarama 07-06-2009 11:54 AM

66 is way to old and just not fair on the child. Not just because there is a higher probability that the child will lose it's parent before adult hood but because the older you are the less you can keep up with a youngster full of energy....

The mental generation gap is also far too wide........

pinkmichk 07-06-2009 12:20 PM

far too old when we visit my grandparents (72 and 71) they are exhausted by 3pm and have to have a nap with my daughter running round and stuff so i cant imagine someone that age being able to keep up energy wise to look after the child properly plus there is the high probability of the child being left without a parent while they are still young

Ninastar 07-06-2009 12:24 PM

I know this is kinda not anything to do with this but I think its alot better to have a child at 16/17 than 66+
Am I the only one who thinks this??? I was gunna make a thread on it but I am not too sure lol x

30stone 07-06-2009 12:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrGaryy
yes, she's likely to be dead before the child is even 20, plus think of the ridicule amongst his peers.

Don't think thats a real good reason, that was also used so many times in the should gay couples be allowed to adopt.

And was shot down.

Ninastar 07-06-2009 12:35 PM

Also. I was told that the guy who plays dumbledore in harry potter has a baby. I think the baby was born like 1 or 2 years ago though. His wife was either 40 odd or 50 odd.
I was like. Ew.

M X 07-06-2009 12:37 PM

It's wrong and disgusting. If she dies when she's 70 the child will only be four!


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