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Originally Posted by Cherie
that's very clinical approach though that takes no account of the partners feelings , and if a woman in a committed stable relationships takes the decision based purely on her own feelings many relationship will not survive that so she might have to be prepared to lose baby and partner
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And that will be her choice to make. If two people in a relationship have different thoughts on children then that relationship is doomed unless one person is willing to give up what they want for the other person and then you have an issue of resentment between the parents and potentially towards the child if the mother never wanted a baby in the first place.
Letting the mother have the final say is way less messy.