....awww Parmy...dear, dear Parmy...you’re just a huge heart..
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...it’s so lovely that you have excellent friends on TiBB, people you like to talk to and read their posts etc...people you love to be around..?...that’s the thing with TiBB isn’t it...what makes it so special, so unique...the lovely people here that we all feel...and maybe TiBB is a little bit of a crutch for you...or maybe quite a big crutch even...and that’s a valued thing as well, so very important..but TiBB isn’t something, a place that fixes things in way those things might need to be fixed...it can only ever play a very small part in that if that’s something that someone needs, you know...because that would be too much responsibility put on it, it just wouldn’t be fair either...you praise Josy and Dezzy in particular for their moderation values on TiBB..?...and I completely agree with you, they’re just stunning in their value on the forum...as are the other moderators...for giving their time and their energy to create the forum this is...even on those days that are particularly frustrating for them...those pulling their hair out days...
...but what they are is forum moderators and that’s responsibility enough...that’s a heavy enough weight to carry...they’re not any type of specific experts in ways that 13-16yr may feel problems and worries they want to make a thread about, type thing...it all helps, all advice and thoughts help but it can’t be a fix as such....so a crutch is only one small thing, only one thing that plays a part, you know...anything more would just be too much responsibility on a forum ...too much weight for members or staff to carry...
...I’m so, so pleased that you feel the value of TiBB, Parmy...I’m so pleased you find so much comfort in it at times...
...but with some things you feel at times with what you say....?...yeah, absorb the crutch that the forum can be and your friends on here can be in their loveliness and supportiveness...but also...think about those who are experts in helping people walk with less need of crutches...because no weight of responsibility is put on them that they’re not extremely skilled to bear...and any help they give will be of so much value in ways TiBB couldn’t offer in being just a lovely old Internet forum...
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