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Old 24-07-2018, 10:46 PM #13
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Even thinks they're weird because they're the only ones who knows what goes on in their own heads, haha.

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Originally Posted by Lilbro View Post
I can't tell you the amount of times I've got home from a gathering, worrying my stumbling or the fact I didn't thank someone or the fact I didn't seem interested left a sour taste, only to get a text from someone to say the person/people I worried about actually liked me and only had nice things to say

Tl;dr, you'll never know how people feel about you, but chances are it's never as bad as you think. If you're anything like you are online you're a lovely person who I'm sure couldn't leave a bad impression
Exactly this! People generally don't notice or care about the odd missed "thank you", you generally come off as rude anyway. 99% of the time, things seem worse in your head than they generally are.
Ask yourself this - would you judge someone or even remember an hour later if someone stumbled or didn't say thank you? nah, no-one cares
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