Sorry to be harsh, but I really don't understand why would you go in there in first place. "straight but likes to get it on with guys"? Are we going to pretend it sounds promising?
It's like going on grindr/tinder expecting to have a deep meaningful conversation and then getting disappointed that it's mostly about sex.
I do understand the need to find love, to love and be loved, but not at any price and not for the sake of "doing it already". I think it's just doing it wrong and it's worthless that way. More harmful than worthless tbh.
Demand more for yourself, for your own good. And I'm saying it in a caring way.
