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Originally Posted by Ammi
..I haven’t seen that Natalie has no self awareness...she’s feisty for sure etc, I mean that’s Natalie..it’s part of her character and the very thing that’s had her a housemate in the first place, surely...so she’s been herself in every way and yet she’s been nominated for it and I think she’s genuinely confused about that...she’s tried to find out what people’s storms are, she’s wanted to know who she’s living with ...well now she knows who she’s living with and for her that hasn’t been a pleasant thing...and yeah, she even tried to push about the storms with people and trying to get some reveals about them during the nomination process...and some became uncomfortable about it..?...for me though, that shows that she isn’t contrived in any way...she doesn’t adopt anything false when it’s nomination time...she’s Natalie, she’s loud and proud and very Natalie..  ...
...and to be fair to her, she has tried to address some of the issues she’s had directly..(..yeah ok not in the best way I know..)...but others aren’t addressing directly with her so as far as she’s concerned in her thoughts... what would she be being ‘self aware’ about..many of them are just bickering about her behind her back when there has been opportunities to address these things directly...with Gabby for instance..?...it was obvious to see that she really wasn’t on board with Rodrigo in the kitchen when he tried to clear the aid and address stuff...she reluctantly apologised but really had no self awareness of how her exclusions in the workout had felt to him and Natalie...she went straight out into the garden and was obviously put out with what he had said..(..while he had felt that he’d cleared the air and all was good and ok with them, that’s the thing...)...and she said she didn’t want to talk about it, obviously all too upsetting for her...then she proceeded to talk about it...talking behind the back when she’d just had an opportunity to address directly...she says that she can’t do that with Natalie because Natalie is apparently intimidating..?...but Rodrigo was calm and very not intimidating...and yet she chose not to really clear the air with him but to reluctantly apologise and then go off and have a sulky time...how very dare he suggest she’d made people feel excluded even though they had been excluded...no self awareness at all...
...and the bitching behind the back about Natalie, knowing things like that can so much determine nominations etc..?...and the exclusion from things...for me, are much more ‘bullying’ type things than how Natalie has been ...she has never tried to exclude anyone or isolate them in any way...as she said, she’s really tried to always include everyone and gee them up etc in all of the activities...and yet she’s the one who is apparently always at fault...always in the wrong, always in the wrong, always in the wrong....  ...poor Natalie.. .. |
I agree with parts about Gabby but come on Ammi
, even when people try to calm her down and talk in a civilised way she's still not listening.
The whole being excluded from the work out argument escalated real fast, Natalie also UN apologetically threw another tantrum just because everyone wanted to have a break and eat some food, but no they must do what Natalie wants as it's her show so they must twerk day & night for her until their arses get cramp
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Gabby is more interested in her clique so yeah she probably did leave out Natalie & Rodrigo.
I think Gabby is putting the water works on a bit , i think it's going to get worse. I can tell Gabby will probably turn bitchier . She will always have the boys on her side "the Tatted trio" as Trisha said on BOTS .
The crying is annoying , and Gabby comes across a bit miserable.
I can understand in a way wanting housemates to open up more but Natalie is crazy and going about it the wrong way , she didn't even wait a week and she kept prodding them . On the launch night she was bizarrely more calm when asking Chloe about her storm. despite the insensitive comment about if her kidnapper was "cute"
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