[Retroman]

The majority of the time I agree...

When someone cheats, you know they're of the frame of mind that they don't care enough about the people they're with to stay faithful to them.

Their level of morals isn't high enough basically.

Of course it's possible to cheat once then never cheat again, but I think most people who fall into that category are one's who just never found the chance to cheat again.

Then again, someone could be with someone they really like and cheat on them. Then later be with someone they really love, and not cheat on them.

Or somebody may learn from their mistakes the first time they cheated.

So it depends on the person really...
But I think most of the time, it's important to remember that this question is only important when it implies to someone you're with/been with or maybe even yourself.

If someone has cheated on you and promised never to do it again, and you forgive them...I personally think it's pointless and that if they're capable of cheating on you once then you might as well give up on them.

Even if they didn't cheat again, cheating once is bad enough and nobody should allow themselves to be treated like a doormat just for the sake of not being alone. Too much jealousy and paranoia will follow, making the relationship impossible to maintain forever.

If it's you that's cheating, only you know whether or not you're capable of doing it again...which if you are, you should leave the person you're with if you have any compassion what so ever.

By you I mean people in general, not specifically you Supernoodles =]