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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

See, this is what I mean, though... as soon as there was aggressive behaviour that person should have been removed. That should apply regardless... if there are women there being aggressive THEY should be removed, too, so the transgender aspect surely becomes totally irrelevant as soon as that happens? All it takes is a rule that says "this is a calm, safe refuge: if you behave aggressively you can't be here" and... that's that?

Well I would agree with that, and I reckon if it was a woman born a woman acting this way she would be, but people are so fearful of being labelled transphobic and losing their jobs and because there are no proper guidelines in place to address any problem that might arise, staff are putting the safety of other residents at risk, Im pretty sure we all know the majority of the trans community just like any other community are peaceful and lawful and just want to get on with their lifes, but they are being let down by people who want to whitewash any discussion about how to deal with those that are not