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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier
Tbh I think an important part of that conversation has to be that there is no 100% safe way to have anal sex, and make it clear that you only EVER have to engage in sex acts that you enjoy and are comfortable with. Women don't "have to" have anal sex, Homosexual men don't "have to" have anal sex, and in fact I believe statistically the majority of encounters for most gay men involve manual and oral, and anal is less common (or never for many).
Basically there should obviously be no judgement for everyone enjoying whatever they want to enjoy consensually, but there are HUGE myths around anal sex being "expected" of women, and "essential" for gay men, and those are pretty damaging in themselves.
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Woah, woah, woah, woah, slow down cowboy, lets not go overboard!