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Originally posted by Retroman
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Originally posted by supernoodles!
I 'fell in love when I was 14',I was actually 13 when I started going out witht he person In question and Im 17 now and still with them.We`ve been very on off,but were still going lol.Its a really difficult thing to go through though being in love at such a young age.Its hard to cope with.
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I know how you feel...
Apparently the largest percentage of relationships that last forever, are those that started at secondary school.
But you also end up latching onto them because you've never had to go out there and look for a partner during your teenage years, and it seems pretty scary so you base your whole life on the one person.
Not that Im saying you're just with your partner for conveniance, just that many people who get into relationships so young and stay in them...might be happier with someone else. They just daren't do it and stick to what they're used to instead.
In short, my only advice for people is to ask themselves if they're truly happy in their relationship. Or could things be much better? You only live once, and wasting years with people just because you don't want to be alone, will narrow your chances of finding someone who's better for you.
To those who are as happy as they could be, then you're lucky!
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I know what you mean and yes there have been times in the realtionship now when i look back and think yes i only stayed with them because i was scared,becuase i diddnt want to be on my own,becuase i thought id never have the feelings that i did with any other person.Its sounds a bit sad but its how it was at the time.Now however and for the past 5 months i have been truly happy,and i 100% dont want to be with anyone else.Yes we argue occasioanlly and things are always perfect but i have come to relaise that I am never going to have a perfect relationship all of the time no matter who im with.It may sound like im settling for what i already have but thats not the case.