[Ammi]

...this is the only James thread I could see...but it’s not a James is fit, thing...when the placings were being done on the board, it’s understandable that James took charge, as camp leader...otherwise it just becomes a nightmare of people all having different reasons for putting names in individual places..?..so it was good for him to be the leading voice...his reasons though for doing the females first, of it being something that he felt the respectful thing..?...and yet he completely ignored the most respectful thing of all, which was listening to Kate’s voice and respecting that she could make her own individual decision...he did the equivalent of ‘oh don’t worry your pretty little head, I got this..)...I know his intentions were lovely, but...they’re all individuals with lots of things to consider within that....so shouldn’t be grouped together, based on their genders...taking charge doesn’t mean, not considering what others are saying..I really felt for Kate...