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But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.
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Sorry, when did we start discussing specific people (apart from Stephen Bear who seemed to get forgotten about 2 pages ago). We're ALL talking in GENERAL.
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I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner.
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It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days  Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.  |
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Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.
It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.
People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out  |
So you can ASSUME all of this in a hypothetical scenario about "cheaters" to reach your opinion but mine's invalid?
No. You've gone so far off track you're tied in knots.
A bad act doesn't make a bad person, necessarily. Intentional actions that hurt and deceive another person is pretty sh*tty behaviour which goes a long way to showing me the measure of a person.