[Kate!]

and did you forgive them?

Mine is my now estranged brother and his wife who kept hold of my mums ashes after her cremation and scattered them without telling me so I wasn't even there. Also I left a handbag at their house and it had my mums wedding and engagement rings in it which she had left to me in the will and my sister in law kept them and denied they'd been in the bag. I will never forgive them.