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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet
exactly, you have a word with the person (if it did happen) and explain why you think its not a great thing to say. YOu dont go and trigger your new wife who essentially is staying at the in-laws. What did he think would be the benefit of doing so?
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Yes, if my wife was in a emotionally vulnerable state, the last thing I'd do would be to add to her turmoil at that time. As you say, I'd tackle the person and make sure they never uttered those sentiments again and perhaps tell my wife at a later time when she was in a better place.
What others would do is up to them, I'm saying what I think would be best.