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Originally Posted by aaronneely2017
So I had to cut ties with a friend back in November, the friend was possessive and manipulative and always had a tendency to guilt trip me and other friends alot.
2 and a half months later he now wants to call me as he claims to have realised how awful he's been.
I've never really had a situation like this before, in one hand I'm willing to listen to what he has to say and try and find a way to build a bridge. On the other hand I really dont know what his true intentions may be, like i said he can be very manipulative and he may only be wanting to make ammends due to the other friends (inc his so called best friend that he fell out with no long ago) that have had to cut ties with him aswell due to his toxic behaviour. He may think because he has no one left that he has to get try and get back with us
I dont know what to think tbh i just cannot be assed with any drama and would rather just live without it in my life.
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Its a dilemma , i had a friend who i let back in twice and the 3rd time she did it i had had enough , she wanted to apologise again but i knew it would only happen again. Sometimes you just have to move on ~ do what is right for you and go with your gut feeling, sometimes people do change and if thats the case with your ex friend they can meet new friends who hopefully they will treat better than you and yours.