Some dude at a gay club put his hand in my pants while I was dancing. Not even grabbing it from outside, he literraly put his hand in there
Just because it's a gay club doesn't mean you get to do whatever you want.
I wasn't even in a backroom (not that consent in there is not the rule, but it's a different type of energy than the dancefloor itself, if you get what I mean)
So I just told him to get his hand away from it or I would break his wrist.