19 and a half was way too young from my parents point of view plus her parents are even worse on the matter but we defied them and grabbed a ring and rushed to a registery office and did it on the quick. I wished it could have been a lovely family affair, but we did the rush job and everything has worked out so far, 'touch wood'
Btw, the photo is not a perfect lookalike and I am very clean shaven, its the only way.