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Old 30-07-2021, 06:11 PM #33
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Originally Posted by ThomasC View Post
Slapping, choking, spitting, gagging I would consider to be quite normal during sex tbh.

I am not into any of that, but I would imagine a lot of people are and would be turned on by it.

That would actually be quite tame even. If you are happy with that then so be it.

As an adult if you told me that i barely consented to that when both partners were happy to do so then I would be outraged.

But I think we're talking about different things, different audiences and an industry where some probably don't have a choice because they can't afford not to.
Normalized not "normal", and men are into it and turned on by it, request it, etc, and because it's normalized many women mistakenly believe that it's a reasonable request, and comply with it because they believe this, despite the fact that they don't personally enjoy it.

And it's getting worse with younger people and teens.

Because of porn, normalising it.

But so long as the lads are getting their jollies eh, best not kink-shame them, the ladies are "willing to please" after all. Prudish to try to stop them. They like it! Honest!
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