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Originally Posted by thesheriff443
No not at all!
Some on here talking like women are so weak they can’t think for themselves and and are forced into doing fans only or other sex based stuff or that it’s all about a mans needs
The majority of Woman like sex and some woman like porn
Some women go and see male strippers
The false idea that women are play things for men is bollox
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No one is saying women don’t like sex Sheriff, the difference between “enjoying sex” and “being a sex worker” should be pretty clear surely? You’re really not getting the point to be honest.
Yes women can think for themselves,
Yes women enjoy sex.
No women should not be thought of as sex objects. Which is why it shouldn’t be possible to buy them, like sex objects, or spreading the idea that selling their bodies like objects is empowering or good. Many men DO see women as objects and the fact that they’ll open their wallets and “buy them” instead of seeking a mutual, equal encounter with someone who wants the same as them without being paid for it is just more evidence of that.
No one is talking about women being forced into OnlyFans (although there are countless women across the world forced into all sorts of sex work) - this thread has quite clearly been about people being encouraged into low-level sex work by a general societal impression that it’s normal or even desirable as a money-making choice. If you think that people’s choices aren’t influenced by trends and normalisation… we’ll you just don’t understand social psychology. Which is fine but it is what it is.
As for it “all being about the man’s needs”? Well yes it is all about the buyer’s needs. The sex worker is providing a service that the man needs (actually let’s not say needs, it’s a “want”, not a “need”, framing it as a “need” is what leads to things like Incel).
“Some women like it too” is a total red herring. Yes many women watch porn. But the vast majority of buyers of sex worker services/subscription holders on sites like OnlyFans are adult men. And the vast majority of sellers are girls in their late teens and early 20’s. I’ve seen people on this thread alternately arguing that either that isn’t true, or suggesting that it isn’t a problem. Gobsmackingly, I would imagine some of those people even consider themselves feminist.